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LSG Scott
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i have been there and it is very frustrateing
when your family will only listen to main stream Doctors and think your nuts.

so i have put together a very good DVD from news clips and other youtube stories,

it is a very good DVD to show anyone who needs to be informed about lyme.

it help convince my brother to get him and his son tested.

and guess what they both are CDC positive

so if you could benefit from such a DVD just let me know and i can send you a copy

thier is no charge i'm just trying to help

god bless

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LSG Scott

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wonderful generous of you. I will PM you.

Many thanks & praying you are showered with blessings for doing this.

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Very kind of you. And generous to take the time. We could all use the help. Most of my husband's family WILL NOT acknowledge the health crisis that we are both in. Very sad. I will PM you.
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17hens
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PMed you. Thank you!

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"My flesh and my heart may fail, but God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever." Psalms 73:26

bit 4/09, diagnosed 1/10

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That's so sweet of you Scott!! I hope it helps many people.

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symptoms since 1993 that I can remember. 9/2018 diagnosed with Borellia, Babesia Duncani, and Bartonella Hensalae thru DNA Connections.

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METALLlC BLUE
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You guys are also welcome to use my article. If someone needs solid science, it'll get the point across.

https://acrobat.com/#d=sbb-EmpQrQTgrPoezLGreg

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LSG Scott
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some people might be afraid to give me there address on lymenet so if you could post a review
of the DVD when you get four copy that would be great.


also i thought i would reintroduce myself, here is my video story from about a year ago juat as

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B9WZQz4SMrE

as a side note, i am now 50lbs lighter now than what i was in the video a year ago, i'm just glad i was able to afford to lose all that wieght


thanks Scott

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LSG Scott

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Hey Scott, just watched your great video story about your mom and you. (great, btw)

You wouldn't happen to be from Boston, would you? [Big Grin]

Take care and I look forward to receiving your DVD soon.

THanks so much for doing this for us!

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"My flesh and my heart may fail, but God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever." Psalms 73:26

bit 4/09, diagnosed 1/10

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LSG Scott
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no problem if it is revieved well here. i will post the offer over in geneal support also

Scott

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I received your DVD in the mail as promised yesterday and watched it today.

Excellent, excellent, excellent! A+

Straight forward, to the point, doesn't take long to watch... and if they dont' "get it" after seeing this, there's a good chance they never will.

Thanks for all your work, very, very much!

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"My flesh and my heart may fail, but God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever." Psalms 73:26

bit 4/09, diagnosed 1/10

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great youtube video! May the Lord bless you!
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moving to general support

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sixgoofykids.blogspot.com

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LSG Scott
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thanks for the well wishes, and you very welcome

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LSG Scott

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I know scott personally and have the dvd. He is a good guy with no motives other than to help.

So if you want it get it!!!

Thanks scott!!!

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Paul Mall
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Scott I got the DVD thank you

I am going to see what I can do about getting an ISO format for download on my site

thanks

Paul

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This is very generous of you. Luckily my family believes in lyme..but only my dh and sister understand how serious it is.
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Something happened to me recently that really angered me. I was to take a trip to Italy to receive crucial treatment for my illness.

Two days prior to the flight, my nephew was having his first communion. My brother was severely fierce in his "hope" that I would make an appearance.

When I called him a week in advance he appeared to cope well with my decline to go. I told him that my health was poor, and that making the trip was essential. I needed to be well enough to travel and so I had to rest before leaving.

The day of the activity he told people at the celebration that he was very disappointed that I did not attend. He said "He is well enough to Fly to Italy but can't even stop by for a few hours to such an important event?"

I called him later expressing my unhappiness about his comments. I was informed of what he said by others who attended.

He refused to acknowledge my reasoning when I called. I told him I really wanted to attend but it was not wise because it could be the difference between draining my energy and causing me to be very sick when attempt to travel.

We are at a stalemate, which has been going on for years. I gave him a copy of Under Our Skin and I've tried to help educate him. I am unable to get thru to him.

I'm an extremely brilliant and intelligent communicator -- or so I'm told -- and if I can't convince him of the significance of this situation, what else can I do?

Would your material help me save this relationship? If so, please send me a copy. I'm in need to finding a way out of this. The anger is strong on both sides now.

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LSG Scott
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i'm sorry but it is no more perswasive thann the UOS you had him watch

sadly there is no covincing some people

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Paul Mall
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@METALLlC BLUE wow that's surprising if anyone could confince someone I would think it would be you.

I am very thankful all my friends and family understand

but I am only in my first month so we shall see how they are later on down the line.

I am trying to educate everyone who is close to me on this...

Paul

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I am considering sending him a copy of my latest paper and demonstrating the science.

My brother is a Physical Therapist with a doctorate. His opinion is contrasted with friends he knows in the medical community.

He has spoken about me to them -- I am sure -- and concluded that my case is not worth noting.

This absurd behavior has enraged me, and caused waves through our entire family. I have been extremely reasonable and tried my best, but I can't seem to get the dialogue really going.

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well we all know how some people in the medical field re-act to this.

some are just closed books on the subject

they will know soon enough this is getting so big

Paul

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I contacted my brother -- after finding his e-mail address at the hospital he is associated with. Here is what I wrote:

Mark,
It's your brother. I'd like you to review this article that I've recently published. CLICK HERE (The Link for "The Case For Chronic Infection" was included.)

Thanks
Michael

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I have cryed on the phone to my brother and sister for years looking for support through being sick and they dont understand.
Now that i have a diagnosis it hasnt changed no matter how much i explain to them how serious it is. Kinda hurts since my parents are able to be there and since my brother and sisters lives are going just fine they cant find the time to be there for me.. Really hurts. Its like they have been hearing me say im sick for 10 years so even thought i have a diagnosis and explained my obstacles in getting proper treatment their attitude remains the same.
I have to not pay much attention to that hurt though as it will self defeat me.

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I brought the other threads to the top so people can see my situation.

http://flash.lymenet.org/scripts/ultimatebb.cgi/topic/3/25467?#000010

and

http://flash.lymenet.org/ubb/ultimatebb.php/topic/3/24640

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I am not a physician, so do your own research to confirm any ideas given and then speak with a health care provider you trust.

E-mail: [email protected]

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Scott,
Thanks for sending me your DVD so quickly! I will be watching it this weekend!
Margaret

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