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Posted by randibear (Member # 11290) on :
 
My mom has died. Will not be on board until i don't know when....

her heart gave out. doni said she had massive heart damage. don't understand hy doctor's didn't see it.

gotta go. much love...
 
Posted by sixgoofykids (Member # 11141) on :
 
I'm sorry Randi.
 
Posted by shoney (Member # 9925) on :
 
So sorry..our prayers are with you
 
Posted by Tincup (Member # 5829) on :
 
You will be in our heart. Prayers coming your way.

[group hug]
 
Posted by adamm (Member # 11910) on :
 
I am sorry, Randibear.
 
Posted by Niere (Member # 14387) on :
 
I'm so sorry. Losing a parent is so hard.

You and your family will be in my prayers.

[group hug]
 
Posted by Mommy*of*3 (Member # 11688) on :
 
I'm so very sorry.
 
Posted by steelbone (Member # 14014) on :
 
Terrible News

Hang in there
 
Posted by map1131 (Member # 2022) on :
 
Sorry for your loss randibear. Prayers and strength coming your way. I can't even image what that would feel like. I only know how it effected my husband.

Take care of you.

Pam

[ 17. April 2008, 11:37 AM: Message edited by: map1131 ]
 
Posted by cottonbrain (Member # 13769) on :
 
i am so very sorry, randibear. losing a parent can make you feel so very abandoned. hang in there; our thoughts are with you.
 
Posted by disturbedme (Member # 12346) on :
 
I'm so sorry.

Will be thinking of you and praying.
 
Posted by Robin123 (Member # 9197) on :
 
Sorry to read this. It's very hard to go through. Take care of yourself.
 
Posted by lymemomtooo (Member # 5396) on :
 
I am so sorry for your loss. lymemomtooo
 
Posted by savebabe (Member # 9847) on :
 
So Sorry.. [Frown]
 
Posted by Vermont_Lymie (Member # 9780) on :
 
Hi Randi, I am sorry for your loss. All my sympathy to you. [group hug]
 
Posted by mtree (Member # 14305) on :
 
randibear.....

Im so sorry to hear about the loss of your mom.....
take strength in knowing that there are so many of us here on LymeNet that are thinking of you.....

[group hug] mtree
 
Posted by joalo (Member # 12752) on :
 
Randi,

I am so very sorry!! I lost my mom recently. It is devastating!! My thoughts and prayers are with you.
 
Posted by Lymetoo (Member # 743) on :
 
Randi,
I'm so sorry to hear this. I do hope you will be able to handle things over there. It's hard. I know firsthand what it's like.

But you will get through it.

Prayers being sent for you and yours.

HUGS to my friend:
[group hug]
 
Posted by WildCondor (Member # 434) on :
 
Sending you healing thoughts and hugs. Take good care of yourself. We are here for you.
 
Posted by feelfit (Member # 12770) on :
 
Randi,

God Bless you and keep you well. It is never easy to lose a parent, no matter what the circumstances.


[group hug] Feelfit
 
Posted by kelmo (Member # 8797) on :
 
So sorry, Randibear. You loved your mother in a powerful way and honored her beautifully.

May you have peace during your time of pain.

Be gentle with yourself.

Love
Kelmo
 
Posted by luvdogs (Member # 9507) on :
 
I am sorry Randi - I cannot even imagine what you are going through now. Our thoughts are with you.
 
Posted by laura j (Member # 14257) on :
 
Randibear,

I am so sorry for the loss of your Mom.

Love, Laura
 
Posted by ljaz (Member # 14723) on :
 
So sorry for your loss.

Take care.
 
Posted by sometimesdilly (Member # 9982) on :
 
I am so, so sorry for your loss.

I know you did everything within your power to be there for her; i hope that will bring you some comfort when you are most keenly feeling her loss.

I lost my father a few months ago, so have some sense of what you are going through. Please feel free to PM or email me ([email protected] )anytime.

hugs- Dilly
 
Posted by wiserforit (Member # 9732) on :
 
Oh randibear....

I am so very sorry for your loss.

I am sending many silent air-wave hugs and holds to you and your family.

You are in my thoughts,

wiserforit
 
Posted by Beverly (Member # 1271) on :
 
I am so very sorry Randibear. [Frown]
 
Posted by CherylSue (Member # 13077) on :
 
I am so sorry. That's awful.

Many hugs,
CherylSue
 
Posted by Geneal (Member # 10375) on :
 
So sorry my friend.

I am grieving with you.

Sending you prayers and Angels to hold and comfort you during

This most difficult time.

[group hug]

Geneal
 
Posted by breezywings (Member # 9222) on :
 
I have been following your threads since I am a relatively new poster.

I am so sorry to hear this happened. Please accept my deepest condolences.
 
Posted by Health (Member # 6034) on :
 
I am sorry to hear this randibear, I hope you will be ok. Let your Mother know, that she is in your heart, carry her in your heart and talk to her

in there, and this may help.

Trish
 
Posted by Aniek (Member # 5374) on :
 
So sorry for your loss. [group hug]
 
Posted by Dawnee (Member # 15089) on :
 
Oh I am just so sorry to hear of your loss. My heart goes out to you and prayers as well.
Dawnee
 
Posted by dmc (Member # 5102) on :
 
so sorry to hear of your loss. Sending prayers and hugs.
 
Posted by Boomerang (Member # 7979) on :
 
I am so sorry to hear this, randi.

Will be thinking of you. God Bless.
 
Posted by lymednva (Member # 9098) on :
 
randi, so sorry to hear this. i don't think we are ever ready to lose them, no matter the situation.

may your memories of happy moments spent together sustain you through this difficult time. [group hug]
 
Posted by pab (Member # 904) on :
 
I'm so sorry for your loss!

Peggy
 
Posted by Lymeblue (Member # 6897) on :
 
Ooohhh Randi...
 
Posted by daise (Member # 13622) on :
 
I'm sorry to hear that.

Randibear, many here, hear you.

daise
 
Posted by Michelle M (Member # 7200) on :
 
Sending a hug of comfort, Randi.

[group hug]

Michelle
 
Posted by tickitout (Member # 6982) on :
 
Randibear,
My deepest sympathy is felt for you and your family. May you be blessed knowing she is watching over you and always remember the great times you shared.

I lost my Mom also a few weeks ago and I still go to pick up the phone to call her for advice or just to chat. It is very difficult to accept. I know it seems like it is not real.

You are in a difficult place right now and my prayers are with you.
May God Bless You
 
Posted by notkrazybrian (Member # 10621) on :
 
sorry for you loss, you will be in my prayers, brian
 
Posted by sparkle7 (Member # 10397) on :
 
My condolences... I will light a candle & think of you & your mom.
 
Posted by Cass A (Member # 11134) on :
 
Dear Randibear,

Sorry to hear of your recent loss.

Thank you for continuing to help out here at Lymenet with your experiences and advice.

Yours,

Cass A
 
Posted by bettyg (Member # 6147) on :
 
randi, my heartfelt sympathies to you on your beloved Mom; now she's free of all pain...

i'm so glad you got to go home lately and spent quality time with her! that will help you during your time of sorrow and grief. [group hug] [kiss]
 
Posted by Lauralyme (Member # 15021) on :
 
So sorry for your loss
I'm thinking about you
Big Hug
Laura
 
Posted by luvs2ride (Member # 8090) on :
 
I'm so sorry about your Mom. Take care and come back to us soon. [Frown]
 
Posted by ElaineC (Member # 9857) on :
 
So sorry to hear of your great loss -

I know what you are going through, I lost my Dad very suddenly a few months ago. It's devastating - but somehow we get the strength and courage to carry on - that's what they would want for us!

Thinking of you.
 
Posted by DakotasMom01 (Member # 14141) on :
 
Randibear,
Sorry for your loss. You will be in my prayers.
 
Posted by KS (Member # 12549) on :
 
you are in my thoughts....
 
Posted by treepatrol (Member # 4117) on :
 
Its real hard when you lose your mom Iam so sorry .
May God give your family peace and comfort. [group hug]
 
Posted by 1Bitten2XShy (Member # 12280) on :
 
Sending hugs your way.
 
Posted by viva (Member # 8183) on :
 
Dear Randi,

My heart goes out to you.
I lost my mom suddenly 3 years ago. There's no way around the pain, but please know that you will feel better over time, as unbelievable as that seems right now.

You're in my thoughts.

Viva
 
Posted by hurtingramma (Member # 7770) on :
 
So sorry for the loss of your mom. You have been through so much. My thoughts and prayers are with you and yours.

[group hug]
 
Posted by stella marie (Member # 7216) on :
 
So sorry Randibear.....thinking of your family.
 
Posted by sammy (Member # 13952) on :
 
So sorry to hear of your loss Randibear. Please take care of yourself. You are in my thoughts and prayers. God bless [Smile]
 
Posted by sunshinyday (Member # 14337) on :
 
I'm so so sorry for your loss. It is a big one. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Gail
 
Posted by cactus (Member # 7347) on :
 
It is so hard to lose a parent. I'm sorry to hear about your Mom. Please know that you'll be in my prayers, too.
 
Posted by Soleilpie (Member # 8481) on :
 
Randibear,

I am so sorry for your loss. I too just lost my mother (March 21st). She ended up on a respirator, which wasn't the first time she'd been on one, and to make this story short, she ended up brain dead. She was probably brain dead when they put her on the respirator. My dad, my sisters and myself were there when they finally turned off the respirator. It's the hardest thing I've ever had to go through. I know my mother did not want to go. She still wanted to restart her Lyme treatment that she had only started briefly before she stopped to have some major dental work done. The one thing that helps me is knowing that she is no longer trapped in a body that had imprisoned her for 15 years. She's now able to dance, play golf, sit up on her own, breathe without her weakened diaphragm muscle getting in the way.... She's buried at Arlington National Cemetery, in an area where the Pentagon is right in view. It's gorgeous and I know she's happy with her final resting place.
I know there's nothing I can say to take away your grief. All I can say is that your mother is free from any of the pain and suffering she was experiencing. She's in the absolute perfect place right now. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.
Christina
 
Posted by lymeladyinNY (Member # 10235) on :
 
I'm so sorry to hear it. Hang in there, randibear! [Frown]
 
Posted by tailz (Member # 10014) on :
 
I'm so sorry.

My prayers are with you <3
 
Posted by lymewreck36 (Member # 4395) on :
 
I'm so sorry for your loss Randi.

mary
 
Posted by Robin123 (Member # 9197) on :
 
And support to you too, Christina.
 
Posted by not so sublime lyme (Member # 15185) on :
 
Very sorry for your loss. To lose your mom is just heart-breaking. Hang in there.
 
Posted by Lymetoo (Member # 743) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Robin123:
And support to you too, Christina.

Same from me, Christina. [group hug]
 


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