Just wanted to post that Steve Seibert died around 1:15 this afternoon. He put up a good fight but the lung damage was just too extensive. The end came very suddenly.
Will post funeral details when have more info.
Bea Seibert
Update: 10/10/12
Visitation will be from 6:00 - 9:00 p.m. Saturday Roach Funeral Home 708 Braxton St Gassaway, WV 26624 www.roachfuneralhome.com Ph: 304-364-2231 Obituary will be online in a couple of days and I think online condolences can be posted there.
Funeral service Sunday at 2:00 p.m. with potluck meal afterward provided by church members
Rosedale Baptist Church 7457 Rosedale Rd Rosedale, WV 26636
The church we were married in 20 years ago on September 12 -- our wedding anniversary was the day Steve was transported by helicopter to Roanoke Memorial Hospital.
Burial at Bourn Family Cemetary in Rosedale, WV -- located on Bea's parents farm
Will post details soon of where memorial contributions can be made.
Cards can be sent to:
Bea Seibert 1506 Mulberry Rd, Apt 12, Martinsville, VA 24112
[ 10-10-2012, 12:47 PM: Message edited by: seibertneurolyme ]
Posted by Dekrator48 (Member # 18239) on :
Oh, Bea, I am sooo very sorry.
You have my very deepest sympathy dear friend.
May God fill you with His love and peace, knowing that you did far more than anyone could have ever expected, to help Steve.
You are what a devoted wife should be and a picture of Christ's love.
I wish I could take away your pain and sadness.
Steve is with Our Heavenly Father and is perfect again and encompassed by unending love.
I am praying for you, Bea, and will continue to do so.
You are so brave and strong and I really admire all that you have done for Steve.
Be proud of the wonderful wife that you have been to Steve.
Big hugs and praying for you....
Posted by randibear (Member # 11290) on :
OMG Bea, I am so very sorry. Please accept my condolences.
I wish there was some way I could help.
Posted by RZR (Member # 20953) on :
I am so very sorry to hear this....breaks my heart.
You did everything you could and beyond. It's obvious how much you loved Steve. He was a lucky man to have you in his life!
I will continue to pray for you.
May Steve rest peacefully in the arms of God.
Deepest sympathy, Jen
Posted by lax mom (Member # 38743) on :
Bea,
I am so sorry. You have fought harder than any wife could ever fight for her husband. I pray that God will comfort you and give you strength.
Posted by Lymebulldog (Member # 35068) on :
Bea,
I am so sorry to learn of Steve's passing.
Please know that our thoughts are with you.
Trust that you are never alone...
With a heavy heart, Lymebulldog
Posted by Spindleshanks (Member # 32556) on :
Prayers and hugs. I am so sorry for your loss Bea.
Posted by fourwinds (Member # 14114) on :
Bea, I have been following this silently in the background and praying for you both....
I am so sorry for your loss...
You are a strong and courageous woman.
Posted by WendyK (Member # 18918) on :
I am so sorry for your loss. Your efforts and the support you gave were amazing, Steve was a lucky man. Although it doesn't lessen the pain, all you have both had to go through has not been in vain and will help many others in the future, I'm sure.
Posted by beths (Member # 18864) on :
So sorry for your loss. May your memories of good times sustain you through this difficult time
Posted by Tammy N. (Member # 26835) on :
Dearest Bea,
I am so sad to hear of Steve's passing. Even though, I suppose, it should not be a surprise to us, it still feels like a shock. For all of your knowledge and dedication, and all you have done, it was our sincerest wish that things would have turned out differently.
I am so very sorry for your loss. It's a loss we all feel.
Sending warm wishes that God remains close to you and helps you find some measure of peace and comfort in the days ahead.
Wish deepest condolences, Tammy
Posted by FuzzySlippers (Member # 13658) on :
There are no words . . . .
Bea, I am so sorry. We are here for you, dearheart.
May the Lord bless you and keep you.
May the Lord make his face to shine upon you and be gracious to you.
May the Lord lift up his countenance upon you, and give you peace.
We love you Bea. And we loved Steve too.
Fuzzy
Posted by Dogsandcats (Member # 28544) on :
You were a dear and faithful wife. May God be with you and give you His peace as you go thru this time of great sorrow.
You did above and beyond as you cared for him.
Posted by Ellen101 (Member # 35432) on :
So sorry to hear this. Thinking of you during this difficult time.
Posted by Catgirl (Member # 31149) on :
OMG... Bea, I'm so sorry to hear this :(
Posted by linky123 (Member # 19974) on :
I'm so very sorry to hear this, Bea.
Will keep you in our thoughts and prayers.
Take care and God bless.
Posted by MichaelTampa (Member # 24868) on :
So sorry for you both. I have admired how hard you tried to get him well.
Posted by lymeboy (Member # 24769) on :
I am so sorry for your loss. My condolences to you and your family.
Posted by LymeGoAway (Member # 25041) on :
Bea,
I'm so very sorry. I know there are no words that can take away your pain, but please know that you're in my prayers.
Posted by debilyn (Member # 35753) on :
My family is so sorry for your loss. God bless you and comfort you.
Posted by SewGraced (Member # 36986) on :
I am so sorry for your loss! May God comfort you during this difficult time.
Posted by momintexas (Member # 23391) on :
My condolences to you. I will always admire you for all you did. I'm so very sorry.
Posted by PatriotM (Member # 38493) on :
I am very sorry. I will continue to pray for you Bea.
Posted by jlcd1 (Member # 18138) on :
I'm so so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Posted by derk diggler (Member # 31903) on :
so sorry
Posted by pme (Member # 31621) on :
I am so very sorry. You fought such a hard fight. I am so amazed by you and am so sorry for your loss. You will remain in my prayers.
Posted by momindeep (Member # 7618) on :
My deepest sympathy for you Bea...what a mighty wife you have been all along...you fought the good fight. You also are a blessing to our Lyme community sharing your knowledge willing and tirelessly.
I will ask the Lord to wrap His arms around you now.
Posted by Keebler (Member # 12673) on :
- Dear Bea,
I have always marveled at your academic endeavors in trying to figure all this out -- but more so at your steadfastness with the nitty gritty day to day hurdles. Love seems the driving force and that love will live on in your heart.
Steve was indubitably blessed to have you as a true partner on the path you both shared. In this time of transition, I hope you feel that light of love within and around you. Take good care of yourself, now. I hope you will be able to rest well with the crisp autumn air helping to make your steps lighter. -
[ 10-09-2012, 06:29 PM: Message edited by: Keebler ]
Posted by Keebler (Member # 12673) on :
- An Old Irish Blessing
May the road rise up to meet you. May the wind always be at your back.
May the sun shine warm upon your face, and rains fall soft upon your fields.
And until we meet again, May God hold you in the palm of His hand. -
Posted by tickssuck (Member # 15388) on :
Dear Bea,
I have followed your posts. I am so very sorry for your loss. You are such a huge asset to the Lyme community and Steve was so fortunate to have your love, support and knowledge.
RIP Steve and peace be with you Bea.
With Sympathy. TS
Posted by Andie333 (Member # 7370) on :
Dear Bea,
You and Steve have both been an inspiration to all of us here, and I can't help but think of how blessed you were to have found each other.
His death is so sad, but I imagine him now--free of all these horrible diseases.
My thoughts, prayers and wish for peace continue to be with you, Bea.
Andie
Posted by LSG Scott (Member # 21624) on :
Bea I'm sorry for your loss and i pray for you to find some comfort during this horrible time God bless you
Scott
Posted by Robin123 (Member # 9197) on :
I am so sorry, Bea -
You have been sooooooooooo supportive of him throughout these years! You worked so hard to save him - you did the best you could.
We are here for you -
Posted by lpkayak (Member # 5230) on :
bea,
i am so sorry. thru this whole thing i have been in awe of your courage and energy and love.
while you took care of steve, you taught us all.
i hope you will be able to rest and find peace soon. prayers.
Posted by curious and suspicious (Member # 39167) on :
Someone I did not know died today.
Someone I know only through emails and phone conversations lost a loved one today.
The first fought a courageous battle against inadequately-defined illnesses until his body needed to rest.
The second supported the first (and me and you) by asking that medical personnel try harder and not give up.
The first has found peace.
The second has yet to find peace.
These two people helped a world-wide community.
We each need to support the members of the world-wide community which we belong to by default and not by choice.
We need to ask more of the medical personnel that we deal with so that others who follow in the footsteps of Steve and Bea will have the burden of physical illness, complicated by lack of knowledge and resistance to change of protocol, lessened.
We need to pick up Steve's banner, walk with Bea in compassion and friendship, and continue researching tick-borne illnesses.
Bea, I admire your strength and may your strength keep you safe.
Posted by Haley (Member # 22008) on :
There are no words to express the sorrow that I feel for you.
You have been a shining example to us, showing us what it means to truly love someone and and care so deeply.
When you are sorrowful look again in your heart, and you shall see that in truth you are weeping for that which has been your delight. ~Kahlil Gibran
Posted by Life+Lyme (Member # 33568) on :
I am so very sorry to hear this. Continuing to pray for you and your family.
Posted by Robin123 (Member # 9197) on :
Curious, that is a very touching first post you've made - thank you for reminding us all about our continued work forward.
Posted by lyme-o (Member # 35115) on :
So very, very sorry for your loss. Thinking of you and your in my prayers.
Posted by Nancy2 (Member # 95) on :
Bea...........There are no words to express how sorry I am. Please know that you are in the thoughts and prayers of us all.... Sincerely, Nancy
Posted by anuta (Member # 22646) on :
Dear Bea,I'm so very sorry for your loss. You were very courageous trough all this very difficult time!!! Thank you!!!! God bless you and your family.
Posted by LymeCFIDSMCS (Member # 13573) on :
Bea, I am so so sorry. You have been such a fighter, an exemplary spouse, showing unbelievable love and courage in the face of this illness that none of us will forget.
I will keep you in my prayers, and wish you much love and light as you navigate this painful time.
I'm very sad for you, and glad you have family with you for support. Love is forged and defined in times of hardship, and you have shown your true devotion and love here. There are tears in my eyes for you, but I hope you know there was nothing more you could have possibly done to fight for Steve.
Posted by lymemomtooo (Member # 5396) on :
Bea, I am so sorry for your loss. I know you have done everything possible to help your husband. These diseases are Hell.
I am not on often anymore but I remember your help and encouragement over the years. You have always been very helpful to this board.
May you find some peace. hugs. lmt
Posted by jackie51 (Member # 14233) on :
I am so sorry for your loss. You were amazing and steadfast in your care for him. I am sure he felt your love and devotion.
Hugs.
Posted by Carol in PA (Member # 5338) on :
Bea, I'm so sorry.
Carol
Posted by Elaine G (Member # 20735) on :
Bea, over the years, I have followed Steve's and yes, your progression. I never saw two people so informed and courageous.
I am so sorry for your loss. My heart aches for you.
Elaine
Posted by Disheartened (Member # 8287) on :
Bea, I'm so very sorry about Steve. You both have been in my prayers. God bless you. Debbie
Posted by lymeinhell (Member # 4622) on :
I am so sorry for your loss. He undoubtedly had the most supportive, loving wife a man could ever have, who stood by him thick and thin. There are no words that truly convey our sorrow at his passing.
Please know that we are all here for you, and will keep you in your prayers.
Please find a way to remember him, share the good times, and he will always be with you.
Posted by Cockapoo1996 (Member # 14238) on :
So sorry. I know you lost your best friend. I hope memories from the good times you had together bring you comfort.
Posted by gatorade girl (Member # 24896) on :
So sorry for your loss Bea.
Posted by beaches (Member # 38251) on :
Bea, I am so very sorry to hear that Steve has passed on.
Today I went to the grocery store. After I parked, I looked at the clock and it was 3pm. A strange feeling came over me and the phrase "he is no longer with us" popped into my head. I immediately checked Lymenet on my phone but I didn't see any news that he had passed, so I was relieved.
Then of course, to check in after 4pm and see this terrible news was so sad for me and everyone else here, and of course, most especially you.
Bea, I applaud you. You have stopped at nothing to get Steve well. You have researched and documented his journey so thoroughly and completely.
You have done so much over and above what most people could ever imagine. I believe that because of you, Steve lived a longer and better life.
You have been a faithful, loving and dedicated spouse. Your strength and perseverance in the face of awful odds has been unwavering and amazing to so many.
You are a blessing to so many and a beacon of light in the darkness that is this awful disease.
I pray that God gives you the strength to get through the tough days and months that lie ahead. I hope that you find comfort in the words that everyone here has posted.
God Bless you, Bea. I will continue to keep you in my prayers.
Keebler posted one of my favorites - An Old Irish Blessing - and I'd like to repeat it:
May the road rise up to meet you. May the wind always be at your back.
May the sun shine warm upon your face, and rains fall soft upon your fields.
And until we meet again, May God hold you in the palm of His hand.
Posted by NEMOM (Member # 31370) on :
Bea-I have been amazed by your courage and strength. So sorry for your loss. I will continue to pray for you.
Posted by Sammi (Member # 110) on :
Bea, my heart breaks for you. I am so very sorry.
I continue to pray for you and your loved ones.
Posted by Kudzuslipper (Member # 31915) on :
I am so so sorry Bea. I how you find some comfort that Steve can now rest in peace. I am keeping you in my thoughts in this sad difficult time.
Posted by DKat (Member # 30941) on :
Bea, You are continually in my prayers. May you feel the Lord's love and strength. Hugs.
Posted by rera2528 (Member # 29886) on :
Sending you love.
Posted by FuzzySlippers (Member # 13658) on :
For Bea:
All mankind is one volume.
When one man dies, a chapter is not torn out of the book, but translated into a better language. And every chapter must be translated.
God employs several translators; some pieces are translated by age, some by sickness, some by war, some by justice.
But God's hand shall bind up all our scattered leaves again for that library where every book shall live open to one another.
John Donne (1572 - 1631)
Posted by Hoops123 (Member # 18333) on :
Bea
So sorry for your loss. Will pray for you in this difficult time.
Posted by philly78 (Member # 31069) on :
Bea
I am so sorry for your loss. The strength and courage you have shown through all of this is inspiring. I will continue to pray for you.
Posted by BoxerMom (Member # 25251) on :
Bea, I am so sorry. You both fought a long and brave fight. True Lyme Warriors!
This is for you. You were Steve's all-nourishing Sun:
�And still, after all this time, the Sun has never said to the Earth, "You owe me." Look what happens with love like that. It lights up the sky.� - Rumi
Posted by Lymetoo (Member # 743) on :
Bea, I am so sorry to hear this. May God hold you in His arms and comfort you.
We all know that YOU DID EVERYTHING HUMANLY POSSIBLE to help Steve. Do not ever forget that!!!
I am speechless and I'm sorry I can't say beautiful things like so many here have done. Just know and forever remember that YOU and STEVE are greatly loved by everyone here.
Posted by Marcie (Member # 10070) on :
I am so sorry for your loss. You are such a strong woman the way you fought for your husband through out the years. May Steve finally rest in peace. Praying for both of you.
Posted by Keebler (Member # 12673) on :
- From: BettyG asks to share here, her post from over at mdjunction: --------------------------------------------------
thank you to the 5,811 people at www.mdjunction.com lyme board, who have read this thread from when i first posted it 10 days ago.
your PRAYERS sent to this unknown person to you helped him last this long. you gave support to his wife, bea, who fought the hospital ALONE since no family members lived close by.
bea is the most courageous woman who REFUSED to do less for her spouse, the babs patient, then she possibly could.
if our LYME/VECTOR-BORNE BILL gets before the FULL committees on senate/house, i'd love to see BEA SIEBERT be one to testify on behalf of all of us for what they went thru!
she's a gifted writer; both she/steve were accountants; so i see the detail to specifics in all her posts.
please send prayers to BEA now as she grieves the loss of her beloved husband, steve siebert.
thank you all. this could have been any one of us; doesn't it feel good that total strangers reached out to help them both thru the stress, LONELINESS of handling this alone, etc.
god bless you all, hugs/prayers,
bettyg, iowa friend of theirs 8 yrs. -
Posted by Keebler (Member # 12673) on :
- Now, for BettyG's personal note:
Bea, my heart goes out to you for losing the love of your life, steve. you 2 were such a special pair together; you lived FOR EACH OTHER!
you fought more battles for steve trying to get what he DESERVED to be done on testings and paved the way for more lyme/vector-borne patients/families to get the needed care and RESPECT they so deserved.
please let us know [contact details] so we may send you cards [and MEMORIAL GIFTS to use as you might need].
you'll always be a part of this community; i know you have lots more to share as you heal the pain and sorrow of steve's passing.
may god walk beside you now as he has with you and steve during these final weeks and years prior.
when you are missing steve, put on a video of him hearing his voice/laughter and watching gestures and mannerisms.
BUT make copies of the ORIGINALS first since they'll get worn out fast.
keep in touch bea; i'm so proud to have gotten to know you both thru your writings these last 8 yrs. of your battle together.
i'm proud to be a friend to you both.
hugs/prayers forever,
BettyG, iowa lyme activist friend. -
Posted by blinkie (Member # 14470) on :
Bea, I'm so sorry. Nothing can be said to comfort you right now. Just know that God is holding Steve and he is not suffering anymore.
You are an amazingly strong women and I thank you. I hope that your and Steve's struggle will cast a bright light on Lyme.
Hugs and prayers for you.
Posted by cozynana (Member # 34270) on :
So So sorry for your loss. Keeping you in my prayers.
Posted by hopeful4 (Member # 8486) on :
Bea, Sending heartfelt condolences. You are an amazing and courageous woman, a loyal wife and friend. Gentle hugs to you. May Steve find peace now.
Posted by feelfit (Member # 12770) on :
My deepest, deepest sympathy, Bea Seibert. And my even deeper respect for you, your perseverance and your obvious commitment to the phrase " for better and for worse, in sickness and in health"
Goodbye to Superman, The Lone Ranger- Steve Seibert.
Posted by cactus (Member # 7347) on :
Dear Bea,
I am so, so sorry. You and Steve have been in my thoughts and prayers, and will continue to be.
Thinking of you...
Posted by sickofsick (Member # 29258) on :
Bea,
So sorry to learn of Steve's passing. You are a great example of devotion to the end, I'm sure all your efforts on Steve's behalf will have some influence on the battle we all fight.
Peace and comfort to you.
Posted by map1131 (Member # 2022) on :
Lord knowns you tried your hardest. You gave it everything you had to beat this for Steve.
I'm so sorry. We've all lost a little piece of ourselves today. It hurts. This should not be our world.
Peace be with you my dear.
Pam
Posted by Messa (Member # 38065) on :
I am so sorry. Praying that god fills you with his love and peace.
Posted by a mom (Member # 23920) on :
Bea,
You and Steve touched many hearts, some you have not even met.
Wanted you to know that there were more doctors and researchers who were trying to figure out what was in thos video clips than we knew!
lax mom sent your clips and situtation through her network where more researchers were trying to figure out what was in Steve blood.
Thoughts are with you Bea.
Posted by Jane2904 (Member # 15917) on :
Bea, so sorry for your loss.
Hugs and God Bless.
Posted by tickled1 (Member # 14257) on :
I am so very sorry.
Posted by lyme in Putnam (Member # 11561) on :
Bea, I'm so sorry. You did all you can do always.
Posted by beaches (Member # 38251) on :
a mom and lax mom, it was very apparent that both of you were working very hard behind the scenes to help Bea.
I am sure you both have your own problems, yet you went all out to help Bea.
God Bless you both for doing what you did, as well as anyone else working "behind the scenes" on behalf of Bea and Steve that we don't know about, and I'm sure there are at least a few more.
Bea, I hope and pray you feel the love from so many here surrounding you tonight.
Posted by MannaMe (Member # 33330) on :
Bea, You have my sympathy. May God be especially close to you in the coming days.
Posted by canbravelyme (Member # 9785) on :
Bea,
I am so shocked to read this -- I thought if anyone would recover, it would be Steve. You guys sought out the best of medical care, and went to the ends of the earth to obtain it.
It's a real glass of ice water in the face that no matter how long we have been battling this hideous illness (+ the politics), that we (or maybe I should say, "I") are not immune to succumbing to this dreadful disease.
I send you every last shred of my love.
CBL.
Posted by sixgoofykids (Member # 11141) on :
I'm so sorry to hear this, Bea. May he rest in peace.
Posted by hadlyme (Member # 6364) on :
So very sorry for your loss. We all have been following you, walking beside you, and praying for you throughout this journey.
We don't understand life at times...Let God carry you through these next months.
Does anyone know where we could send cards-money, to help with costs and all?
Please let us know.... we can rally together and help. Beth
Posted by D Bergy (Member # 9984) on :
I am sorry to hear of your loss.
I hope you get through this time of grief by remembering the time you had together.
Best regards
Dan
Posted by Abxnomore (Member # 18936) on :
My thoughts are with you Bea. I'm so sorry for your loss.
Posted by aiden424 (Member # 7633) on :
Bea,
I am so very sorry for your loss. May God bless you and give you strength. May Steve rest in peace. God Bless!!!
Kathy
Posted by glm1111 (Member # 16556) on :
Bea,
So sorry that you lost Steve. You worked so hard to help him get well through the years and most recently did everything you could to save his life. Hope you find some peace in your life.
RIP Steve.
Gael
Posted by nefferdun (Member # 20157) on :
Bea, I am so sorry for your loss. Steve was so blessed to have such a loving and devoted wife. You were so strong and unwavering, it seemed like just your will could pull him through.
Much Love Prayers
Bev
Posted by surprise (Member # 34987) on :
Saddened and very sorry for your loss. You have incredible grace and strength-
God bless------
Posted by chootik (Member # 11221) on :
Sorry to hear that Bea! May God be with you at this hard time and god bless.
Posted by mlg (Member # 35383) on :
I am so sorry to hear of your loss and may you find comfort in God.
My prayers are with you.
Posted by lymednva (Member # 9098) on :
Bea, I am so sorry to read this. May y our memories of happier times sustain you through this difficult time. May you feel God's presence with you in the coming days, weeks and months. You have my deepest sympathy.
Posted by 2young2dieMom (Member # 25434) on :
Find peace in knowing that Steve suffers no more and his love is still with you. God bless you, Bea.
Posted by canefan17 (Member # 22149) on :
Sorry to hear Posted by gagamooppop (Member # 34314) on :
Very sorry to hear bea...my deepest most sincere condolences
Posted by seekhelp (Member # 15067) on :
I am so very sorry to hear this news Bea. As others said, your commitment and dedication to your marriage / lifelong partner is beyond admirable. He was so lucky to have you. I pray he is in a better peaceful place now. You're one amazing woman.
Posted by Lymedin2010 (Member # 34322) on :
I echo the many words on here & feel deep sorrow.
I respect you & saw all that you have done. We would expect other loved ones to do the same, but unfortunately not everyone does.
You win an award for all your efforts. As unfortunate as it is, the only comfort is that he is no longer suffering and is in a much better place now.
Posted by Pinelady (Member # 18524) on :
Another mighty Lyme Angel working for us all now.
Peace and comfort Bea.
Posted by Marz (Member # 3446) on :
So very sorry for your loss Bea.
I know someday you and Steve will be joyfully reunited again in Heaven.
Until then I pray our Lord's spirit of peace and comfort be with you.
Hugs
Posted by sparkle7 (Member # 10397) on :
My condolences, Bea. You are an amazing woman. I'm sure Steve is in in a peaceful place now. In helping your loved one, you also helped us here with your extensive knowledge.
Best wishes to you & to Steve - resting in peace...
Posted by sammy (Member # 13952) on :
Oh Bea, my heart goes out to you. I can't think clearly and can't speak well right now because I just can't stop crying. I am so so sorry...
Keeping you in my prayers, asking that God will bless you, comfort you, and provide for you during this difficult time. Hugs friend.
Posted by Razzle (Member # 30398) on :
My condolences
But please know that you did everything - everything! - humanly possible to help Steve, and many prayers were said to do the beyond humanly possible...
And I pray for the Lord to comfort you, that the Lord would be a refuge, a source of peace.
Blessings,
Posted by Rumigirl (Member # 15091) on :
Oh, dear Bea, I am so, so sorry! And so shocked. You did so much for Steve for so long. And it seemed like maybe he would really pull through after all. It's so terribly sad.
I feel like like I know the two of you completely, even though we've never met. You have been such a staunch supporter throughout the years, not only of Steve, but of all of us. Your knowledge rivals that of an excellent LLMD!
And your heart is so full of love and giving. Now is a time for you to receive lots of love from all of us and from everyone who cares about you.
May God fill your heart and mind with His love and grace. May he comfort you and bring you peace. I send you love and continued prayers as you go through this difficult time.
Psalm 23
The Lord is my shepherd; I shall not want.
He maketh me to lie down in green pastures: he leadeth me beside the still waters.
He restoreth my soul: he leadeth me in the paths of righteousness for his name's sake.
Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil: for thou art with me; thy rod and thy staff they comfort me.
Thou preparest a table before me in the presence of mine enemies: thou anointest my head with oil; my cup runneth over.
Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life: and I will dwell in the house of the Lord for ever.
Posted by paulieinct (Member # 17514) on :
Bea: My condolences on your loss. I know you fought valiantly on his behalf for a long time. We all admire your perseverence and determination to get him well. May you find peace and comfort in the memories of the good times. All best, Paulie
Posted by viva (Member # 8183) on :
Bea, I am so very sorry. Your exquisite care of Steve has always been an inspiration to me, even before this incredible fight that you waged for him. I wish you peace and healing.
viva
Posted by terv (Member # 29410) on :
Bea, I am sorry. Steve may be gone from Earth and all of his suffering has been relieved but he is up there and will continue to assist us (and you if you continue) in fighting the lyme battle.
Posted by cleo (Member # 6646) on :
Bea,
So sorry to hear of your loss. Sending my deepest sympathy.
Posted by nonna05 (Member # 33557) on :
Bea... I'm very sorry to hear about Steve..
Even though I don't know you personally...You have shown so much strength and courage.
Lord knows nobody could have done more for a loved one. Steve was blessed to have you.
I hope they figure it out someday so that more won't have to go through that.
May God just hold you in His Loving arms and let you rest in His peace for awhile.
Nonna
Posted by Pocono Lyme (Member # 5939) on :
Bea I am so deeply saddened I cannot express it in words only with tears.
If there is anything I can do for you, please let me know.
Psalm 71:20-21 Though you have made me see troubles, many and bitter, you will restore my life again; from the depths of the earth you will again bring me up. You will increase my honor and comfort me once again.
Posted by WIGGY (Member # 15377) on :
Bea, I am so sorry to hear this news. Praying for you. God Bless
Posted by Rene (Member # 4870) on :
Sending thoughts and prayers your way. So sorry for your loss.
Posted by dbpei (Member # 33574) on :
Bea, I am so sorry. You were there by Steve's side the whole journey. My heart goes out to you. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Please take care of yourself.
Posted by kidsgotlyme (Member # 23691) on :
Dear Bea,
I am so sorry for your loss. You are a wonderful, caring wife. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this time. Steve was a very blessed man to have had you as his wife.
Posted by nonna05 (Member # 33557) on :
Bea, my heart goes out to you. I pray you can feel the LOVE coming your way.
Steve was so blessed to have you in his corner and life.
I hope they figure what it was so others can be sparred.
I pray the Lord holds you in His arms and covers you in peace and lets you get much needed rest for a bit.
Nonna
Posted by tdtid (Member # 10276) on :
Bea, I don't get here are regularly as I once did but remember you were always here giving advice to others in regards to what your husband had gone through with similar symptoms.
I'm so very sorry to hear of your loss. My condolences.
Cathy
Posted by RC1 (Member # 31923) on :
Bea, My condolences to you and your family, I'm so sorry for your loss. Your efforts to rise above the obstacles that you and Steve have faced are an inspiration to us all.
Posted by Catgirl (Member # 31149) on :
I am still so saddened to see this again today. It really breaks my heart (tears). All your poor husband did was get bit by a stupid tick. Bea, I wish for you a deep and comforting peace, especially during this difficult time. You did absolutely everything you could for Steve. You were his angel. Now he's yours. Hang in there. We are all thinking of you and Steve.
Posted by Ranger607 (Member # 28101) on :
So very sorry for your loss Bea, may you feel our presence and love from everyone here on lymenet. God bless!
Posted by txgirl09 (Member # 21612) on :
I am so sorry, Bea. My prayers are with you.
I admire your devotion to Steve. He was so fortunate to have you.
Posted by hopingandpraying (Member # 9256) on :
Dear Bea,
Sending you and all the Seibert family our very deepest sympathy on the loss of your beloved Steve. He is no longer suffering and is at home with the Lord.
You have been such an inspiration to all of us, your extended "family" on Lymenet. Please know we continue to pray for you that God would give you strength and peace in this most difficult time and, when you are ready, to continue the fight against this horrible disease in Steve's name and for all those who suffer from it.
Find comfort in Rev 21:4 "God will wipe away every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death or mourning, wailing or pain."
Posted by payne (Member # 26248) on :
Steve is Free. . . From Lyme Disease. . His aching body, His time here, is Now devine. Lord Keep Steve, May He show us the Way.. Much to release today, My Heart is Broken, Look up nothing but, Blue skies and Steve. FREE Posted by koo (Member # 30462) on :
I am so so so sorry to hear this. My deepest and most sincere sympathies.
Posted by a mom (Member # 23920) on :
Bea, This is from Dr. Alan MacDonald:
"I am so sorry. I wish that I could have done more.
Best to you,
Alan"
He, and many others, were with you trying to help Steve.
Posted by jwall (Member # 22999) on :
I'm so sorry Bea. You have always been there willing to answer my many questions while caring for your husband too and I am so saddened by this news. You have done so much for this community and for your husband. He is no longer suffering and is at peace. You have been in my thoughts and prayers.
Posted by LymeMom Kellye (Member # 24807) on :
Bea, I am holding you in love and light. Praying that you feel the love and support of your family and friends during your grieving.
I am so sorry that Steve passed. Your un-ending support and love make the world a better place.
Peace be with you!
Posted by a mom (Member # 23920) on :
Bea,
From Dr. Eva Sapi:
"My condolence to the whole family it is very very sad best regards Eva"
Posted by birdie67 (Member # 35994) on :
I am so sorry for your loss. I will continue to keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
Sending you love.
Posted by baileypup (Member # 22824) on :
Bea,
Because of you, we've had the privilege to walk beside you.
Because of you and your devotion to Steve, you have demonstrated what true love really is.
Because of you, doctors will learn and others will be spared your grief.
Because of you, we understand the meaning of true GRACE.
Because of you, there is an angel in heaven looking over you.
I am so sorry....we will always be here for you nancy
Posted by amk33 (Member # 13206) on :
Bea, I'm so sorry for your loss. We have all been touched by Steve's life. Know that his suffering has not been for nothing. You have helped so many people. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Angie
Posted by Lou B (Member # 64) on :
Bea, Angela and I are so sorry for your loss ... may he rest in peace.
Posted by kelmo (Member # 8797) on :
OH, Bea.
Posted by bcb1200 (Member # 25745) on :
Bea:
So sorry to hear of this news. You have truely gone above and beyond all these years trying to get him well. A real warrier.
Sending good thoughts your way...
Posted by skies (Member # 28064) on :
Bea, so sorry for your loss.
I don't post here a lot but I've been following the threads silently and including both of you in my nightly prayer since this started.
May God walk with you and keep you safe and strong throughout this difficult time. Rest easy knowing you did all you could and that Steve is in a better place.
God bless.
Posted by lou4656 (Member # 10300) on :
Bea - I am so very sorry to hear of Steve's passing. I have not been on lymenet in a long time, but received an email from Betty letting me know that he had passed.
You were so very helpful to me when I was very sick, and partly thanks to you, I am well today, living a "normal" life, working 3 jobs with energy to spare, and so very grateful for all your help. Please know that the loyalty and love that you shared with your wonderful Steve is traveling with him.
Many prayers for you, Bea. Perhaps I should come back to Lymenet and help in "Seeking" in your and Steve's honor.
Posted by xoxoxox (Member # 18778) on :
Bea, so very sorry to hear about this loss for you. We know that you will need time to find peace.
Know also that there are so many here that have benefited from all of the knowledge you have acquired over the years. I hope that one day you are able to come back here to LymeNet, continuing to educate and be a source of inspiration.
<3
Posted by TxCoord (Member # 9204) on :
Bea, God grant you peace from the Prince of Peace, grace from the Author of Grace, Hope from He who is the Blessed Hope, and mercy from the Father of Mercy.
TxCoord & Silverwolf
Posted by cottonbrain (Member # 13769) on :
Bea, I am so very saddened to hear that Steve passed on. Please remember that you will always have your friends at Lymenet.
Your long efforts to help your hubby must have been greatly appreciated by him -- you never stopped, you were always his devoted companion and I'm sure he took great comfort in that.
In sympathy,and in friendship, Phyl
Posted by coffee71 (Member # 17467) on :
Dear Bea, I am so sorry for your loss.
Sending you love
Posted by cht girl (Member # 26170) on :
I am so, so sorry for your loss. May God comfort you and your family during this difficult time.
Posted by jlf2012 (Member # 36002) on :
Prayers, peace, love, healing to you Bea. You were the most wonderful wife a guy could have. I know Steve knew that and you carried him through the most awful times. He knew he had you by his side and he knew he was never alone. He always had your love and support. God bless you Bea.
Posted by pigwit (Member # 9059) on :
Bea, I am sad for your loss. Steve will not be forgotten.
Posted by tick battler (Member # 21113) on :
Bea,
I am so sorry to hear this news. May Steve rest in peace. My condolences during this very difficult time.
Posted by nefferdun (Member # 20157) on :
You were his angel and now he is yours.
Still, always, thinking of you because you are an angel to all of us.
Much love
Posted by delljen (Member # 25090) on :
"You have left this world of sorrow, and are free from pain and harm, and now rest in peace and comfort, in the blessed Savior's arms." Unknown
Bea, I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and my prayers. God Bless you.
Posted by jda815 (Member # 37681) on :
So sorry to see this. I had him in a prayer group on another site.
You are in my prayers and thoughts Bea.
Posted by katiebobatie (Member # 28753) on :
i am beyond sorry for your loss :'(
it breaks my heart when people suffer so horribly for years from these disease, and never get to see better days here before they finally pass away.
it just isn't fair..
i will be praying for you and your family... you seem like such a strong woman!
Posted by fflutterby (Member # 28081) on :
Bea,
I am so very sorry for your loss. May God give you peace and comfort. Steve was so blessed to have you. You are an amazing wife.
hugs and many blessings
fflutterby
Posted by Healing in Santa Cruz (Member # 7798) on :
Dear Bea, So sorry to hear this. Brought tears to my eyes.
You,Steve and your family and friends are in my thoughts and prayers. Big comforting Hugs for you/Please take good care.
Posted by marypart (Member # 27012) on :
Bea, I have read your posts during the last couple of years that I've been on Lymenet. I only know you through Lymenet, but like others have said, I have been inspired by your perseverence and courage in the fight to get the best care possible for your husband. I sincerely hope you can feel some solace knowing you did all you could and that you accompanied him-- you were with him every step of the way-- in the long struggle. God Bless you and your family. Mary
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Posted by Tracy9 (Member # 7521) on :
Oh Bea....I am so sad. My heart just aches for you. You are one of the most amazing women I've ever had the pleasure to admire. I pray your heart will remain full and that you will stay the course with your mission, as you are one determined and effective woman.
Steve lived as long as he did because he had you fighting by his side. I'm heartbroken to know you are no longer together in body, but I rejoice in knowing you are together in spirit, and that you will be reunited in Heaven one day.
All my love to you, Bea.
Posted by Gerifrog (Member # 17990) on :
Bea, I am so sorry for your loss. I'm sure mere words can not be much comfort right now but know you are held in my thoughts and prayers as this difficult time passes for you. Geri
Posted by Dawn in VA (Member # 9693) on :
Bea, I am so sorry for your loss. You are a beautiful caregiver, and both of you amazing fighters. Hugs to enfold you, and prayers with you right now.
Posted by shazdancer (Member # 1436) on :
Dear Bea, My deepest sympathies to you and your family. And my deepest admiration for the bond between the two of you, and your strength to fight against disease and doctors and dogma. May you and your family continue to find strength in one another.
Sharon
Posted by penguingirl (Member # 28688) on :
So very sad. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your families.
Posted by merrygirl (Member # 12041) on :
Bea, I am so sorry for your loss. You fought so hard for him. You are in my thoughts. This is just tragic!
Posted by hammer (Member # 17201) on :
Bea, my heart is so broken for you. My prayers are with you! You have been such an amazing wife to Steve and an inspiration to us all!
Posted by lightfoot (Member # 2536) on :
Dear Bea,
Words fail me except to say how deeply sorry I am for your loss.
Every blessing of each moment to you and your family.
Posted by norcal (Member # 29829) on :
You are a true warrior,God has a place for you. Blessings!
Posted by Cass A (Member # 11134) on :
Dear Bea,
I'm touched by your loss.
Thank you so much for being there for Steve.
Your personal search has helped us all here. Not much consolation, but we recognize that you acted for more than your own family's survival, although that was uppermost, as it should be.
Love,
Cass A
Posted by ukcarry (Member # 18147) on :
Dear Bea, I was so very sad for you both when I read your news this morning and send you my most sincere sympathy for your loss.
I have always been very impressed by your dedication to the task of supporting Steve and indeed to sharing information to help others with this awful illness. All the very best to you at this most difficult time,
I am truly sorry to learn that Steve was taken home.
I know that each of us who has found this news, has felt the weight of your grieving heart.
Your devotion to Steve, and your dedication to help him, has been an inspiration to all of us.
By your loving works, we know that you are faithful. We encourage you, dear Sister, to lean on that faith in the coming days.
May the peace that passes all understanding, lift your sorrowing spirit.
John, Chapter 14.
"Let not your heart be troubled ... In my Father's house are many mansions: if it were not so, I would have told you. I go to prepare a place for you."
Hymn: "How Great Thou Art"
O Lord my God,
When I in awesome wonder
Consider all
The world Thy Hand hath made,
I see the stars,
I hear the rolling thunder,
Thy pow'r throughout
The universe displayed;
Refrain:
Then sings my soul,
My Saviour God, to Thee,
How great Thou art!
How great Thou art!
Then sings my soul,
My Saviour God, to Thee,
How great Thou art!
How great Thou art!
When Christ shall come,
With shouts of acclamation,
And take me home,
What joy shall fill my heart!
Then I shall bow
In humble adoration
And there proclaim,
"My God, how great Thou art!"
Posted by luvs2ride (Member # 8090) on :
I am so sorry Bea. You were an excellent caretaker for Steve.
Posted by imagine2 (Member # 3136) on :
Bea, I am soooo deeply sorry about your dear husband. The two of you fought gallantly and you are the epitome of an example for all of us to follow. So sad for you!
Peace and love be with you!!
Posted by heiwalove (Member # 6467) on :
bea,
i am so sorry to read this. you and steve have been an inspiration to me since i first joined this board so long ago. your love is among the most steadfast i've seen. thank you for your heart, your commitment, the unrivaled devotion you showed steve. i am deeply sorry for the loss of your life love.
<3
Posted by WPinVA (Member # 33581) on :
Bea, my deepest condolences to you and your family. You are such an inspiration to all of us here. Your love and devotion to Steve has touched us all.
Posted by lymednva (Member # 9098) on :
In reading the obituary from the funeral home I learned that Steve and my daughter attended the same college. Such a small world. You are still in my thoughts and prayers.
Posted by gigimac (Member # 33353) on :
Bea, I am so very sorry for your loss. I have been amazed at the commitment and support you gave your husband. May God be with you during you time of grief.
Posted by lymielauren28 (Member # 13742) on :
Bea, I'm so deeply sorry for the loss of your beloved Steve. I think this loss has hit everyone on Lymenet particularly hard...because in a way, we felt like he was "our" Steve. I've followed Steve's progress over the years as you fought tirelessly and valiantly for his health and well being, and in your own way, by doing so, you were fighting for all of us too.
We should all be so lucky to have such a martyr in our lives, as you were in your husbands. You're deep love and devotion for him touched us all and you're a shining example of what a devoted spouse should look like. How blessed Steve was to have you in his life, and you to have Steve in yours. Nothing can take that away from you.
May God hold you tightly in His arms as you go through this difficult time and may you find extraordinary comfort in the fact that Steve is now with Him for all eternity, free from the chains of illness that held him for so long.
We love you Bea, Lauren
Posted by lymegal23 (Member # 28573) on :
I am soo sorry for what has happened.
I have read Bea's posts since I signed up on this forum back in 2010
I'm a bit confused as to what exactly caused his death. Was he undiagnosed for so long with lyme and coinfections that it caused irreversible damage to him? and thats what he died of. How long did he have lyme. did he have any other health problems before the lyme?
I'm just curious because I never really knew the full story
Bea was an amazing example of loving unconditionally and being there for your partner during their darkest hours.
May god, family, friends and loved ones surround you at this time Bea.
Posted by LAXlover (Member # 25518) on :
Bea,
I am so very sorry for your loss. You worked so very hard. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
-LAXlover
Posted by nomoremuscles (Member # 9560) on :
I'm so sorry for your loss.
I've followed your posts over the years and have rooted for both of you. Steve was lucky to have had you by his side throughout all of this, helping him, advocating for him, loving him. Most importantly, sticking by him through a raw, terrible, unfair deal.
Again, my condolences.
Posted by Jill E. (Member # 9121) on :
Bea,
I am so terribly sorry and sad. I am not on Lymenet as often as I used to be (but still sick), but as others have said, you are the epitome of a warrior, a loving spouse, the angel who God must have personally chosen to help Steve through this battle.
You are in my prayers.
Jill
Posted by WPinVA (Member # 33581) on :
Bea, I'm so terribly sorry for your loss and you have been and will be in my thoughts and prayers. You have been such an inspiration to me and probably many others as well, and I hope you will continue to be part of the Lymenet family.
I apologize if this is a duplicate post - I tried to post a while back but I don't think it went through.
When you get a chance and feel up to it, please let us know how you are doing.
Posted by YinYang (Member # 36358) on :
Bea,
Thank you for sharing your experience with all of us here. We are so blessed to "know" you. I am deeply sorry for your loss and so touched by your dedication and commitment to Steve. May every day that goes by heal your heart without closing the door on your past. Much love to you.
XOXO
Posted by Kudzuslipper (Member # 31915) on :
Just sending a hug out to you Bea. The activity must be dying down now, just know you and Steve have touched all of us. And we are thinking of you still.
Posted by riverspirit (Member # 19435) on :
Dearest Bea,
Just tried to send a private message, but your mailbox is full.
Such an outpouring of loving kindness here ~
I trust you can receive this love and feel yourself to be held.
May you feel the preciousness of each moment, however it is experienced ~
Blessings and deep peace to you ~ always grateful for your presence Here ~
You are in my heart ~
Posted by kelmo (Member # 8797) on :
Bea. Thinking of you this holiday. As the shock of the loss starts to give way to full loss and pain, know that you are continually in our thoughts and prayers.
You loved him with great, selfless love. It's okay to really take care of yourself. It's okay to be a bit selfish and accept the love of others, or make time for yourself just to let go. There are no rules in grief. It just is.
I hope someone comes up alongside you and gives you the comfort only God can give.
You have been a blessing to us.
Posted by sometimesdilly (Member # 9982) on :
Bea-
I just now read about Steve's passing. I am so, so sorry for your loss.
Along with so many here, I've always been deeply touched and awed by the tenacity and love you always demonstrated in your terribly long, emotionally difficult, endlessly frustrating battle to get competent medical treatment for your husband.
I'll be thinking of you tomorrow on Thanksgiving, and through this year's holidays that will no doubt be very painful for you. Part of my thank- you's tomorrow will be that people like you exist, and that you've graced us by your loving example for so long.
Hugs to you- love, Dilly
Posted by Catgirl (Member # 31149) on :
Think of you Bea. A big fat hug and a squeeze!
Posted by canbravelyme (Member # 9785) on :
All the best to you this Thanksgiving, Bea! XXOO
Posted by WPinVA (Member # 33581) on :
Bea, I wanted to let you know that I'll be thinking of you this Thanksgiving as well.
We are so blessed to have your continued presence and assistance here on Lymenet.
Posted by CherylSue (Member # 13077) on :
Oh, Bea, I just read this. I am so sorry. Your hubby has been a "regular" on this board, and my heart goes out to you. God bless you.
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Nonna
