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Posted by lchase (Member # 5702) on :
 
Smiley face because it took someone 2 years, a full hysterectomy and hospitalized 2 times for not being able to walk because of so much pain. Was diagnosed by my doctor, a neurologist with "unknown pain" and a pain clinic doctor diagnosed me with fibromyalgia. Which I accepted until for the heck of it I made an appointment with an infectious disease doctor and last week diagnosed me with lyme disease. My dilemia is convincing people of my severity of pain because some days I'm in moderate pain and others I'm in such pain I can barely walk or climb stairs which my friends and family just can't "believe". Any advise on how to present this condition to people that don't understand my pain???

 
Posted by Kara Tyson (Member # 939) on :
 
I dont know if what I will say matters. But I am a former burn patient. I am burned 60% of my body. Every day they scrubbed my burns with a steel brush.

I would gladly trade 1 day of Lyme for a day in a burn center. Because at least at the burn center people tried to help!
 


Posted by cbb (Member # 788) on :
 
Welcome to LymeNet.
Sorry you have Lyme disease, but it's great that you got a diagnosis.

How to explain your pain?
That's a tough question to answer.
When people say you don't look like you're sick, you can always smile & say
"It's deceptive packaging. Actually, I'm in a lot of pain."

People who have not "experienced" Lyme disease find it very difficult to understand what a Lyme patient lives with every day.
I wouldn't waste a lot of energy trying to convince people you're in pain, but as you improve with treatment, they should see the changes.

I recommend that you take advantage of every opportunity to educate people about Tick-Borne Diseases (TBDs). Most have little or no correct info - one reason they don't believe the pain thing.

I'm delighted you have a diagnosis, but my biggest concern for you is that you get adequate treatment. It must be a strong enough dose for a long enough time, or Lyme will flare up again at some time in the future.

My 2nd concern is that you could have co-infections (like Babesiosis, Ehrlichiosis, Bartonella) which complicate LD.

Hopefully, the Infectious Disease Dr who diagnosed you is a Lyme Literate Medical Dr (LLMD). It's to his credit that he recognized LD, but it's very important to know his treatment protocol.

Go to Seeking a Dr & ask for LLMDs in your area. We don't give dr's names here unless they have given permission, but info will be e-mailed to you. If your dr's name is sent to you - that's great.

Bottom line: you need to have a dr with lots of "satisfied customers."

On the left, click Support Groups & contact any in your state or surrounding states.
They should be very helpful in a lot of ways.

For reliable info on all aspects of TBDs,
go to www.ilads.org/burrascano_1102.htm
Print "Diagnostic Hints & Treat Guidelines" by Dr Burrascano - 32 pages of excellent info.
Highlight, underline, write in the margins....anything to help you find info again that fits your case.

pages 16-18: Antibiotic Choices & Treatment Categories
pages 4-5 & 20-24: Co-Infections

What antibiotics (abx) are you taking?
Dose per day & length of treatment?
Do you have other symptoms?

 


Posted by lchase (Member # 5702) on :
 
Thank you. I am taking Biaxin 500 MG and plaquenil 200 MG, 2 times a day. I will certainly check that site about this doctor I'm seeing to make sure he is diagnosing/treating me right. The symptoms I have is groin/leg spasms/pain, weakness,always tired, tremors/which intensify when I get nervous, side pains, but mostly it's my entire body from my neck down to my toes I'm in constant ache/throbbing pain, pins & needles in my arms to fingertips, and pins & needles in legs to my toes.
 
Posted by lchase (Member # 5702) on :
 
yes it does help and appreciate the thought which will help me get through today, everyday I need something to look forward to or a thought and I will hold on to your thought today
 
Posted by Aniek (Member # 5374) on :
 
I'm a bad girl, because I usually downplay my pain. But at times I do need people to know how bad it is.

One of the things I do is describe the pain in somewhat of a visual manner. I sometimes have severe pain in my upper back. I describe it to people by saying it feels as if my muscles are being cut from the bone with a burning hot knife. I think people get the idea then.

I hope you are still treating your pain symptoms. I actually keep going to the pain doc that diagnosed me with fibro. He may not believe 100% that I have Lyme, but he believes I have pain.


 


Posted by Glassfish (Member # 5693) on :
 
Ichase,

Welcome to the family...and what a

disfunctional family it is.

As for your question, I have given up on

trying to explain the severity of lyme

symptoms.

The fact is, some ignorant people will

always feel that you are faking or "dogging"

it if they see you OK one day and terrible

the next.

From their point of view, often we look

fine to them just when we actually feel our

worst.

I guess it's like trying to explain colors to

a dog. They just can't understand.


Now when people ask how I'm feeling, I just

try and smile, and reply "right this second.

...OK ( or not bad, or even lousy)".


So far, approaching people this way has been

successful in helping them understand the

ever-changing ways of lyme.

I hope I don't seem to be coming across as

Pollyanna.

Unfortunately I have just come to

the conclusion that it takes time for our

loved ones to accept what a fight we have in

store for us and there's not much they can

do to help.


I can't add anything much to what you've

already been told about treatment.


The only thing I can suggest may be actually

one of the hardest thing to do. Go easy on

yourself. The LD has a pretty good head start

on you here, treatment may seem to progress

slowly.


Take a cue from these smileys here and put

one on every day you seem to feel a little

better. You may be surprised how many you'll

collect before long.


 


Posted by mammachase (Member # 5697) on :
 
Thank you, your advise has been taking. Being newly diagnosed and my coworkers in my office now know, they are saying that's great now you'll be okay, I still don't have the heart to say well it may take a while because I think they want it to just go away, what is the correct phrase to use when responding to them about now I'm on the meds it may take a while to work. It seems like it's never going to end already.
 
Posted by troutscout (Member # 3121) on :
 
I Look at them and say...well at least now I have an answer...and, the funny thing is...my symptoms are TEXT BOOK for long term infection with this darn stuff.

It's wild isn't it? Wouldn't believe it myself it it wasn't happening to me.

Kent...the troutster
 


Posted by troutscout (Member # 3121) on :
 
My explanation of Lyme.....

there are over 100 strains in the US alone..each affects you its own way...each reacts to antibiotic treatment in its own way... and, add to that the fact that each persons body chemistry changes the way all of these antibiotics would work anyway, and you have a screwed up mess....

Now....they say my treatment may be lifetime....but, Screw 'em sister...I'm gonna beat this quicker.

Trout


 




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