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Originally posted by mik:
He says our son absolutely, positively does not have lymes. He also said we should condsider the possibility that his symptoms are phsychosomatic. ...................The problem is, I don't want to become a lyme expert. .
the dr [DUCK] who said "Lymes" has proved by saying that instead of LYME that he knows NOTHING about it! So don't listen to one minute of his garbage!
Your son can get well, or at least get his life back. Perhaps the dr who has cured only 5 people is not the expert you need.
I'd seriously consider finding an LLMD, a dr who has treated hundreds or thousands of Lyme patients!
don't want to become an expert? You'll have to if you want your son to get well.
How old is he??
Back later....gotta get to church! 
Treepatrol's links http://flash.lymenet.org/ubb/Forum5/HTML/000569.html
Tincup's Links for new members
http://flash.lymenet.org/ubb/Forum1/HTML/009342.html
Dr. Joseph J. Burrascano's Guidelines http://www.ilads.org/burrascano_1102.htm
Western Blot explanation: http://flash.lymenet.org/ubb/Forum1/HTML/022767.html
The cause and spread of Lyme http://flash.lymenet.org/ubb/Forum1/HTML/032259.html
More info: http://www.ILADS.org/
Lyme Wars http://www.wildernetwork.org/Lyme_Wars.html
Lyme Disease State Info http://www.lymeinfo.net/support.html
Rose's 15 Facts for Newcomers http://flash.lymenet.org/ubb/Forum1/HTML/011977.html
Abbreviations for Lyme-speak
http://flash.lymenet.org/ubb/Forum1/HTML/020494.html
Making the most of your LLMD visit
http://flash.lymenet.org/ubb/Forum1/HTML/020605.html
Success Stories http://flash.lymenet.org/ubb/Forum1/HTML/022173.html
http://www.anapsid.org/lyme/matthewgoss/index.html
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Do not take anything I say as medical advice. I am not a doctor, but I DID stay at a Holiday Inn Express!
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Lymetutu
You are your child's advocate and you need to educate yourself because this disease is complex and doctors all have their own opinions on diagnosis, testing and treating.
You, like me, will have to do the research in order to make decisons about your childs healthcare.
It stinks, but that is the way it is right now. I do what I can to share my knowledge and support legislation so maybe in the future others don't have to go through this nightmare.
Read the newbie links and good luck!
See you are from Wisc., look for a post or reply from NP40 I think; he's from Wisc. too with a teenage son I believe.
Welcome to this 24/7 educational & support group board!
Here's TREEPATROL's and TINCUP'S combination newbie links.
http://flash.lymenet.org/ubb/Forum1/HTML/029917.html
Print off the links then check them off as you read as you could spend several months reading all of this.
print & read Dr. Barrascono's info first; you will come back to this often.
Also, see Cheryl's extensive web sites on: LD DIAGNOSIS, SYMPTOMS, & TREATMENT ... wonderful!
http://www.lymeinfo.net/lymediseasetreatment.html
Some guidelines from Betty/others on using this message board:
* Do NOT use all caps when posting; it's hard on our eyes. But I know one of our members has macular degeneration, and all caps is what she can see & read so exceptions like this are acceptable for good reasons.
* We chronic, late-stage lymies can NOT read long paragraphs. So please limit your paragraphs to 6-8 lines max of text and double space between paragraphs.
* You can EDIT your text comments anytime. You can NOT edit your subject line so please make it as specific as possible instead of ``help, question'' etc. in order to have more readers/replies in trying to assist you. There are between 30-40 NEW/replies to post daily so we can't read all the posts on our limited time here...thanks for understanding.
* If you use the ``quote'' icon, please DELETE [B] bold at the beginning & ending of the quote. This makes it easier on our chronic, late-stage lyme eyes.
* To just reply without quoting, go to the top or bottom of screen in the black & white area to reply or post a new topic. Many of us couldn't see it when we 1st started posting. Thank you for helping us all out!
Bettyg
So sorry to hear about your son. My eight year old daughter also has lyme and she was CDC positive too. She was treated for 8 months so far and is finally doing so much better.
Yes it does sound like your son has a chronic case like my daughter.
She had horrible joint pain, stomach problems, headaches, flu like symptoms and a long list of other symptoms. It's so important to be treated by a knowledgable LLMD who understands lyme...it's the only way to get well.
My daughters only symptoms now are occasional stomach aches.
I made the rounds to every doc in this city including a rheumatologist and Infectous Disease doc...they were the biggest waste of time. Neither one of them would believe she had lyme. The ID doc said we'll treat her with 3 weeks of abx but I don't think she has anything serious.
You know your child better then anyone and
Feel free to email me if you have specific questions and hope your son is feeling better soon!
I think you may have to expend the effort to get more information for your son's treatment and to find a better doctor.
Good luck to you both.
If only we would have seen someone who has treated thousands with lyme. If I could turn back time I would have not just listened to two llmds here. (They are, I am sure, trying their best.).........but I wish I had put my son in the best hands possible when he was diagnosed in 8/03.
Look for a highly recommended doctor. Dr. B. spoke highly of Dr. C. in PA. You can find info on this pediatric doctor by looking at www.lymepa.org (or .com). Go there to read a great powerpoint that is there outlining pages of pediatric symptoms/problems.
I bought the video of Dr C's presentation to the LDA of sePA. After watching this I called Dr C's office-I want my duaghter evaluated. tThere is a wait list of 6 months. I'm on the list.
Thanks for the tip about the list of ped symptoms-I'm going there now.
Most of us HAD to become educated or a loved one or one's self or just someone we know would have eventually ended up in a wheel chair or worse.
If you want your son to get well and have a life you better do some late night reading and find a GOOD LLMD.
If I sound harsh it is because I was one of those people that listened to my Primary Care Doc. No no, your daughter doens't have Lyme he said. Then did an ELISA test to prove she didn't.
Well, it is now 14 years later she is 24 now and her life has been taken from her by a stupid tick that bit her on the back when she was a little girl. I know a woman that has a daughter that had heart attacks and a stroke at 14, she became non-verbal. She listened to DUCKS like the one that told you your son doens't have Lyme. Just like so many of us have.
We ALL had to become somewhat experts, (whatever that is) on Lyme. Even when you find a good LLMD you have to take responsibility for your Son's or your own care to a point.
If I sound angry, yes I am angry, I am angry at the ducks out there that close their minds to the obvious. I am angry at the 20 or more doctors my daughter saw and the 100's of tests she went through when all they would have had to have done was look at her symptoms and do a Western Blot test on her and most of all EDUCATE themselves.
Good Luck Mik and please for your Son's sake get him to a GOOD LLMD with a good track record. There are some very good LLMD's out there. You might even have to travel like so many of us do, but it is worth it to save your son.
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