Dear Lymies: Please respond with anything you think would be helpful regarding JC.
Despite the fact that my tone here is matter of fact, I feel like I have been in an emotional, mental and physical marathon that has no finish line.
I know everyone here can completely relate to that.
I need help.
Our appointment with Dr. F, LLMD Psych of Columbia is in 2 days. We see Dr. J in 2 weeks.
Since JC has been on rocephin and zith, many of his global physical and cognitive Lyme problems have improved.
I am unbelievably grateful JC's following symptoms are getting better:
constant low grade fever
circular face rash
chronic swollen lymph nodes
chronic exhaustion
loss of bladder control
diarrhea
non-response to stimulus, autism, vacant stare
hiding under tables, chairs
constant stuttering, stammering
inability to complete a sentence/speak
inability to "think"
inability to answer questions/converse
severe memory impairment
tics, Tourette's like vocalizations
For all this, we are blessed and do not underestimate the progress.
However, there remains and has been an escalation of severe deficits in attention and impulsivity.
I have no clue as to how much or little of his situation is due to TBD, but I do know we never saw anything of this degree until this past year.
He is again, as he used to be, quite bright, energetic, inquisitive and extremely motivated to pursue academics and projects all day long. I'm talking morning to bedtime, 24/7. Science, reading, art, music....
However, he only functions well as long as he is in a one-on-one, highly interactive environment.
Ie; he usually can't play/do things by himself in spite of the fact that his brain is working very well and is in "DRIVE". His frustration is exquisite.
Unfortunately, most of the time he is unable to pursue anything (including simple activities like tv, computer, toys, coloring, etc)without the aid of another person there to "anchor" and continually redirect his focus.
And that person is usually me.
Often, he is like a vine, clinging to me, and fussy and cranky when I have to put my attention elsewhere.
The separation anxiety is intense.
When he is feeling "well" he is around and about, happily singing, playing the piano, doing science and art projects, etc. non-stop without a care in the world.
He is only "well" about 10-20% of the time.
At school, his need for one on one attention, continuous interruptions and off topic rambling are so intrusive it is impossible for the teacher to teach the class.
He is UNABLE to maintain quiet interest/attention in a group setting. This includes sport activities.
Btw, his teacher is extremely nice, accomodating and kind to JC. She is also aware that he is very sweet and smart and that it is non-volitional.
However, because of this overwhelming interference, he is only permitted to attend school for a few hours a day.
We have been unable to find another school to take him. We are loking at the IEP, etc. but know from good sources that our public school system should be a last resort.
He also LOVES recess and playtime. He gets along very well with his classmates. Many boys and girls at school want play dates with him. He is fun and kind.
In addition, since starting the antibiotics,
we are seeing distrubing NEW onset psych symptoms.
For the first time, he is having frequent, unpredictable episodes of inconsolable, OCD-like, floor-writhing, back arched, fists clenched crying and tantrums.
Anything can set it off: ie; the ketchup "touched" the peas.
The episodes can last for HOURS.
Also new onset night terrors and many bizarre neurological distortions of perception.
We have spoken to Dr. J about all this, co-infections, etc. At this juncture, he does not want to add anything new to the abx mix.
Hence, the appointment with Dr. F.
I would be grateful for any insights.
What causes this? Lyme, abx, die-off, herx, neuro-toxins,co-infections, yeast, immune response, predisposition or co-morbid diagnosis?
What is so baffling about all this is that he unpredictably cycles in and out of completely high-functioning and normal and totally NOT.
Forgive me for being so boring, pedantic and monotone; I'm really just overwhelmed. I hate not being able to "fix" this.
Thanks in advance
love,
andie & JC