I am so sick and tired of feeling like crap. I have my good days which consist of getting up when my son wakes up and hangin out with him all morning, doing the usual all day and then at night after the baby goes to sleep I go out wit my friends to the bar(this happens maybe once a week). Today I felt horrible, my mom tore apart my bedroom, she took all my clothes out of my drawers and made me go through it all and throw out stuff that no longer fit me. I was light headed all day and that was the last thing I wanted to do. It worked out thought, my son took a three and a half hour nap, which unheard of if you ever met my son.
I got diagnosed in late august/early september of 2004 with lyme disease. They say I got in around June which means I got it in the Poconos.
Lately I get so down sometimes and I feel like I am never going to get better. I know it has only been 6 months but it has been a lot. I am a full time student, I just finished taking 15 credits and I am a single mother. I was on a scholarship for basketball my freshman year of college, I dormed and I got hurt and then found out I was pregnant. I stayed there my second semester and then stayed home from school the following semester, I gave birth to my son. After he was born I had surgery to repair my shoulder, then I had months of rehab. Still to this day my shoulder is not 100%, it never will be. I guess its not just the lyme disease that is depressing me but basketball plays a factor too. I played basketball since i was 4, i was in a clinic. I have been on teams since then. Now I am 20 and I ache walking up and down the stairs, its depressing. I can't carry my son for long period of times or else everything hurts. I just wish I was like every other 20 year old.
My mom doesn't understand how some days I can go out to the bar with my friends and some days I can't help her fold laundry. She thinks its that I pick and choose what I want to do. So in return after she said that to me today I printed out The Spoon Theory. Her remark back was maybe my spoons should go towards things that need to be done around the house.
I know I could probably do more around the house but I do like to get out and spend time with my friends too.
Please let me know if it is me or if someone understands me.
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Young N Infected