Topic: hopefully mom's estate is over -- finally!!!
randibear
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it has been very, very difficult. the house sold and they didn't tell me, then they tried to have me cut out of the will, then took pictures i paid to have framed for mom and mom said i could have, it's been a nightmare....
i'm hoping that my sister, the executor, will be honest enough to make sure i get my portion of the house sale but i'm not sure.
my baby sister and i were talking and i said "well they pretty much hate me" and she said "yeah, you got that right."
they feel guilty about how they treated mom and since i'm not there, i'm an easy target...
i will be glad to get that check and finally say goodbye to them....i have not spoken to two of them since mom died.
that bridge is burned and the relationship is gone.
as far as i'm concerned they are dead...they killed any emotion or bond i had with them...
and no, i didn't do anything, ya'll know i didn't. there are some people who don't need a reason to be the way they are, they just are...
so make sure your wills are explicit and if you have something that something wants, give it to them ahead of time. make sure everyone in your family agrees on it. don't leave it up to them to resolve, cause it won't happen.
i will be glad this is over....
i have told mike that if anything ever happens to me, they are not to be notified. and should something happen to him, i'm staying in texas, my home, there is absolutely no reason for me to ever return to ohio.
you can only forgive so much and you continue to make an effort and get rebuffed, then finally you go "aha.." and realize they don't want to have anything to do with you.. so be it...this is what they want and this what they will get....
so don't bother informing me of any get togethers, funerals, etc., cause i won't be there.
i told my sister "well maybe someday they will get over it" and she said "well, some day, but i don't think so." but my heart is broken and it won't be fixed ever...
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bettyg
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RANDI,
greener days are ahead with NO thoughts of your sisters in the picture.
it's their loss; just MOVE on with you/mike's life together!!
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joalo
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It's their loss, Randi.
Now, try not to stress over it or dwell on it. It's not good for your health. Forget about them and concentrate on getting well.
Just my two cents...
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aklnwlf
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Hi there Randibear,
What a mess!!! I'm hoping I don't have to get involved at all with anything to do with the settling of an estate.
The executrix of my mother's estate is my sister also. My sister has some pretty serious drug issues so I'm not counting on anything and don't even want to get involved.
I agree with Geneal that things have a way of working out. What goes around comes around.
Just think, once it's over you don't have to deal with them or that issue again.
Hang in there!!!
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