randibear
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well,gang, i thought my sisters would want to know about this heriditary heart problem i have to alert them like the doctor said.
so i sent them an email and told them about my visit and my condition.
guess what? no response, AT ALL, NADA, SILCH, ZIPPO, SQUAT, NUTTIN....
why do i even bother to try and do the right thing? well no more, i gave it a shot.
i don't have to have dirt kicked in my face again.
i'm done.....i get the message...so don't expect me to show up for your bloody funeral...
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sammy
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I'm sorry to hear this randibear.
One day your family will wake up and realize that you are right and have been all along.
*Hugs*
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joalo
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You can lead a horse to water but you can't make them drink.....
You did your part and that's all you can do.
-------------------- Sick since January 1985. Misdiagnosed for 20 years. Tested CDC positive October 2005. Treating since April 2006. Posts: 3228 | From Somewhere west of the Mississippi | Registered: Aug 2007
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There is none so blind as he who will not see. Hang in, hang on and know that there are many out here who do support you.
You were right in warning them. It's their choice to take the next step.
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kidsgotlyme
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So sorry Randibear. You did the right thing. That's all you can do.
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lymeladyinNY
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Right, you took the high road. I strive to do that daily, despite being hurt repeatedly by many in my life.
You're a good person. No one can take that from you.
- Lymelady
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Again,STOP the madness. No more contact no more drama, you owe them NOTHING.
You can not change them, you can only change you. If you chooseto have contact with them, then you might want to think why is that?
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lymewreck36
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Hi Randibear:
I have two sisters that I connect speak with. One is a river away, and the other is an ocean away, metaphorically and, well, we are an ocean apart.
I have said I think I have cancer and gotten no response. Just the silence is more hurtful than anything else.
So sorry you have a similar sitaution. I know it is painful. You do not owe them anything by the way. You have done what you can.
Mary
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