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Posted by Aries327 (Member # 3757) on :
 
for my friends who remember mgh lyme chat TOFU and NY and washington it is with great sadness that I have to write you and say yet another victom of lyme disease has fallen Adam Rowett 18 years old has dealt with lyme disease from 1997 along with myslf he was a brave little trooper who hardly ever complained even the weeks and months of anbxs that we had to mix into his frozen yougert kept smileing but from that time untill now it kept comeing causeing severe mood swings and as he became a young adult it became more then he could deal with takeing more and more medications untill it finaly won I found him thismorning dead we have to wait for the official death report and as always they are going to blame the pills the person but not this dam disease I cant saymore tonight through my tears and sadness I doent know how i,m going to go on myself
 
Posted by kam (Member # 3410) on :
 
for my friends who remember mgh lyme chat

TOFU and NY and washington

it is with great sadness that I have to write you and say yet another victom of lyme disease has fallen

Adam Rowett 18 years old has dealt with lyme disease from 1997

along with myslf he was a brave little trooper who hardly ever complained even the weeks and months of anbxs that we had to mix into his frozen yougert

kept smileing but from that time untill now it kept comeing causeing severe mood swings

and as he became a young adult it became more then he could deal with takeing more and more medications untill it finaly won

I found him thismorning dead we have to wait for the official death report and as always they are going to blame the pills the person but not this dam disease

I cant saymore tonight through my tears and sadness I doent know how i,m going to go on myself
 
Posted by Lymetoo (Member # 743) on :
 
OH Aries! I'm SOOOO sorry to hear this! I can't begin to imagine what this must be like for you and your family.

Please come here for support when you are able. We DO care and will whatever we can for you.

I pray that you will find strength and comfort.

[group hug] Aries [group hug]
 
Posted by kam (Member # 3410) on :
 
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Posted by bettyg (Member # 6147) on :
 
aries, i'm so sorry to read of your beloved son, adam's death today! 18; that is not right that one so young should have to go thru lyme disease, and that it take him before he's had a chance to LIVE LIFE!


my heart aches for you for all the pain and sorrow you feel, but so glad his suffering is over.

i'm including my link for my sympathy collection, and you'll find many in there to comfort you now and in the days, months, and years ahead.

2 of my very favorites are:

when tomorrow starts without me,

I'M FREE AT LAST ... for those who have been sick and no cure was to be found! We used for my Mom and sister.


http://flash.lymenet.org/scripts/ultimatebb.cgi?ubb=get_topic;f=3;t=01420


when you are really missing Adam, put on a video tape of him; it helps hearing his voice and laughter, and then watching his gestures and mannerisms.

if you don't have a video, see if a family member of friend does, and have them make 2 copies. 1 for lock box; 1 for you to play often as it will get run out.

come back here as often as you need too; we'll help you thru this. [group hug] [kiss]

if you have a HOSPICE near you, they have berievement classes 6 months after a loved one's death; very helpful. i've been thru it 3 times during losss of 4 family members.
 
Posted by Robin123 (Member # 9197) on :
 
I'm so sorry to read this. This is wrong what he and any young person, and anyone of us, should have to go through. I know your grief is big now.

I think those of us who have gone through the Lyme/co experience have great value to others due to our ability to warn them so as to help them avoid this fate, if this can give you any meaning and consolation in time.
 
Posted by Tincup (Member # 5829) on :
 
May God bless you and keep you. My heart hurts for you.

I will pray you will be ok.

TC
 
Posted by ellenluba (Member # 1707) on :
 
Oh God, Aries. This is horrible. I am so , so sorry for what you must be going through. I wish I had some magic healing words to help you.

We will be here when you need to talk. Know how much we all feel for you during this nightmare.
Ellen
 
Posted by Beverly (Member # 1271) on :
 
I am so sorry for your loss, may God surround you with comforting angels. Your family will be in my prayers.
 
Posted by Eva Haughie (Member # 2421) on :
 
Tincup sent this post to me and I want to say how sorry I am.
I feel there is a bond between all of us Lyme patients that transends even from one world to the next and that you son will feel our love and he will find peace.
I hope that you will find peace also and know that we send our love to you, too.
Eva
 
Posted by breathwork (Member # 567) on :
 
Oh sweetie, I lost my wonderful husband on December 21st at age 52...I can't say that I know your pain as a mother, but I do have the flavor of the deep loss that you are living right now...I cannot say enough that you are loved and that this is totally unfair and wrong...and that you are a marvelous, loving mother...He was blessed to have you...This is pain that I cannot measure...and something I cannot fix or plan for....I just try to stay in the raft through the rapids...they always end at some point, so my only effort has to be to stay in the raft...Stay in your raft you wonderful woman...You have a story to tell when you have rested and have your soul feeling strong enough...Until then, let others carry you...let others love you...ask for help and accept it without resistance...

I am and will be thinking of you daily....hourly if need be...This is as bad as it gets...no question...You go on one minute at a time....one hour at a time....rest when ever you can and your body asks you to...eat chocolate and keep posting here and letting us in to support you...I would be lost without the support of others and I am in no way accustomed to do this....

Much love and arms around you....

Carol Ann Schaffner
Wife of John Wampler, the most wonderful man in my life, always with a positive attitude and love in his heart...a better man than I could ever be...My true love...Please feel free to email me or call....
[email protected]
 
Posted by dontlikeliver (Member # 4749) on :
 
I am so, so sorry to hear this.

Hugs
DLL
 
Posted by Geneal (Member # 10375) on :
 
Dear Aries,

My heart is breaking for you and your family.

I am so sorry.

I am asking God to surround you and your family with his Angels.

I ask our Father to strengthen your family with his love

And to hold your son close to him.

I am so sorry.

[group hug]

Geneal
 
Posted by Vermont_Lymie (Member # 9780) on :
 
I am so very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Please hang in there with us and I pray that you will find comfort and strength.
 
Posted by merrygirl (Member # 12041) on :
 
I am so sorry. It must be extremely hard.

We are here for you.

Melissa
 
Posted by WillBDone (Member # 14269) on :
 
I could not say words of encouragement any better than those already so well said above...

Praying a heartfelt prayer that you would be surrounded by the love and comfort of friends and family right now.

[ 12. January 2008, 11:54 AM: Message edited by: WillBDone ]
 
Posted by shazdancer (Member # 1436) on :
 
As the parent of a teen with Lyme, please accept my sympathy, my tears, and my understanding.
 
Posted by lifeline (Member # 3445) on :
 
Oh, how horrible and tragic. No mother should have to go through such a nightmare. No child should have to go through such a horrific disease. My heart goes out to you.

I pray for healing.

lifeline
 
Posted by lymemomtooo (Member # 5396) on :
 
Aries, I am so sorry that you and your son have suffered so with these damn diseases.

Except for the intervention of EMT's, ER docs and God answering prayers in time, we would have also traveled down this path. Our daughter has made 16 attempts.

Just remember that you did all that you could do. These diseases are horrible opponents and our kids just get so tired of the fight.

May God hold you in his hands and may the pain in your heart lesson with time and that you can remember the good times. hugs lmt
 
Posted by mickip (Member # 11663) on :
 
Aries,

I know you must have such pain and sorrow. May God grant you His comfort right now. May He wrap His arms around you.

God bless you.
 
Posted by randibear (Member # 11290) on :
 
aries, my deepest sympthathies on your loss.

our best friends son also died on december 29th. he was 35.

i am deeply sorry. he was so young.
 
Posted by map1131 (Member # 2022) on :
 
Aries, of my dear. No words can heal your heavy heart now. Please come back here soon for loving support from all of us at lymenet.

May the Lord carry you during this time of tremendous pain.

Pam
 
Posted by Lymeblue (Member # 6897) on :
 
....Tears are dripping on my keyboard.....
 
Posted by sometimesdilly (Member # 9982) on :
 
dear Aries-

even sympathetic words must sound like faraway noise to you.

i cannot begin to imagine how heartbroken you must be. i am so, so sorry that you have lost your precious son Adam.

i'll be adding my prayers to the many out there that you will find the strength to go on, however unimaginable that seems to you right now.

please, please, take care of yourself.

love, dilly
 
Posted by savebabe (Member # 9847) on :
 
My thoughts are prayers are with you. [group hug]
 
Posted by Marz (Member # 3446) on :
 
Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers. I pray for strength for you to get through these difficult days. Know that you are surrounded by the love of all of us who care deeply.
 
Posted by MagicAcorn (Member # 8786) on :
 
I am so sorry.

Adam and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.

Please come here if you ever need an ear to listen.
 
Posted by CaliforniaLyme (Member # 7136) on :
 
Tim, I am so so sorry!!!!

I remember you well and I am so sorry!!!

Best wishes,
Sarah
from CA
 
Posted by sixgoofykids (Member # 11141) on :
 
I am so sorry.
 
Posted by DakotasMom01 (Member # 14141) on :
 
Sorry to hear of your loss.
Sending prayers to you and your family.
 
Posted by just don (Member # 1129) on :
 
Deepest sympathy for your loss!!
 
Posted by mtree (Member # 14305) on :
 
........my tears are for your pain and your loss........
my prayers are for you and your family to have strength......
my thoughts are of your son Adam and the fight he battled...
..too young....too soon.........

i am so so very sorry for your loss....
sincerly,
mtree
 
Posted by lymednva (Member # 9098) on :
 
I am sorry to hear this. I have a son who suffers from Bipolar Disorder that I believe is Lyme related. I can understand the mood problems.

May you feel God's loving arms wrapped tightly around you to sustain you through this difficult time. [group hug]
 
Posted by Aniek (Member # 5374) on :
 
[group hug]
 
Posted by heiwalove (Member # 6467) on :
 
i am so sorry. my heart is with you.
<3
 
Posted by Doomer (Member # 11013) on :
 
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss.

[group hug]
 
Posted by Kiwikid (Member # 12974) on :
 
I can't begin to tell you how very sorry I am. There is nothing more devasting than the loss of a child. My heart and sympathy goes out to you.
 
Posted by Nebula2005 (Member # 8244) on :
 
One can only imagine your grief.

Dealing with TBDs is like nothing else.

There are no words.

How a person gets through something like this, I don't know, but you were blessed with him for 18 years, and he was blessed with you.

My heart goes out to you.

Lynne
 
Posted by Cassie (Member # 2106) on :
 
Aries, my heart goes out to you and your family

Take of yourself and remember you are not alone [group hug]
 
Posted by feelfit (Member # 12770) on :
 
So Sorry Mom. Wishing you Peace, and Comfort, Angels to hold your hand.

Rhonda
 
Posted by pab (Member # 904) on :
 
I'm so sorry! [group hug] [group hug]
 
Posted by charlie (Member # 25) on :
 
Tim I remember you from the old days....

We're so sorry to hear of your loss

Charlie&Jenny
 
Posted by Ann-OH (Member # 2020) on :
 
My thoughts and wishes go to you for some sort of comfort through this terrible time.

Ann - OH
 
Posted by Melanie Reber (Member # 3707) on :
 
Dearest Tim,

Please accept my most heartfelt condolences on your tremendous loss. May God's love sustain you, your family and friends through this difficult time.

With love,
Melanie
 
Posted by Lymetoo (Member # 743) on :
 
My condolences also to Carol Ann (breathwork).

I'm so sorry to hear about your dear husband's passing.

[group hug] Carol Ann [group hug]
 
Posted by ICEiam (Member # 7519) on :
 
I am so sorry to hear of your son, Adam. I also lost a child when she was nearly 17, my heart hurts for you.

There are no words I can say at this time that will comfort you. Just know that there are many of us here that are thinking of you and praying for you to have strength though this horrible time in your life.

If you ever need to talk please email me at [email protected] or PM here. I stay up late.....so I will get your message. If you need to talk, I can even give you my phone number.

Nights were my worst time.

Hugs and much love,

Cathy
 
Posted by Stacyb (Member # 13084) on :
 
I am so sorry to hear that.
 
Posted by kgg (Member # 5867) on :
 
As a mom of a young adult with this dd, I just can't imagine but is my greatest fear. My heart breaks for you. May you find comfort at this very difficult time. Will be praying for you and family.

Karen
 
Posted by lymeladyinNY (Member # 10235) on :
 
Please accept my hearfelt sympathies. I can only imagine your pain. I pray for you. [group hug]
 
Posted by wiserforit (Member # 9732) on :
 
I am so very sorry for your loss. I have two young sons of my own. I cannot imagine the magnitude of what you must be going through.

While this is an excrutiating time, it is also a spiritual period with a lot of love being sent your family's way -- support both earthly and from above.

I send you my prayers, blessings and hugs and holds.

wiserforit
 
Posted by 1Bitten2XShy (Member # 12280) on :
 
We buried our 24 yr old son Dec. 06. I can truly feel your pain, sorrow and grief.

My deepest, heartfelt thoughts are with you during this time.
 
Posted by AliG (Member # 9734) on :
 
I can't even imagine the horrible grief you must be feeling. What an absolute tragedy! [Frown]

I am SO sorry for your loss and also for the losses of the others who have posted in this thread.

I pray that God will be with all of you and bring you peace, comfort and strength in your times of need. [group hug]

[group hug] [group hug] [group hug]
[group hug] [group hug]
[group hug]
Ali
 
Posted by bettyg (Member # 6147) on :
 
bitten/shy,

so sorry to read you also lost your precious son in dec. also!! i was going to send you a private message, you in MY PROFILE, you have chosen NOT TO ENABLE PMs; so we can not contact you that way.

please consider changing that for occasions like this; you can block anyone that might bother you, etc.

i hope you will read the sympathy poems i posted above for your son as well! may you feel his precious around you, and each penny you find; that's your son dropping for you to find! [Wink]
 
Posted by Silverwolf (Member # 9196) on :
 
<<<<< Aries and all of Adams Family and Friends and the Others here w/ Recent loss >>>>>,

Sending Prayers for comfort in this difficult time of loss. May Creators Angels hold each one close...May peace descend.

Sincerely, from Silverwolf
 
Posted by dmc (Member # 5102) on :
 
I am so sorry your son has passed. How tragic one so young has suffered so much in his life.
sending you prayers and a hug.
 
Posted by I_am_Sojourner (Member # 14349) on :
 
Dear one,

My heart is overflowing. I am very sorry to hear about Adam's passing. He must have brought you so much joy. He sounds like a remarkable and precious young man. How blessed that you were chosen for him and he for you.

I cannot imagine what these days are like for you right now, and can understand your wondering how you will go on. You have loved and cared for your child as no one else could have.

I pray that you are surrounded by loved ones who will help you carry this and I am hoping it will help you and your family to know that there are so many of us as parents who have feared and come close to facing the same, who care deeply.

And I pray for comfort and a faith that will hold you up while you grieve and find your way through to a place of peace. I know it will take time. I just hope for you that it comes quickly.

You do not ever have to forget how precious and valuable your Adam was in your life, nor how he added to the character of who you are as a man.
His story is a golden nugget to be shared with others to help bring understanding to this horrific disease.

I am beyond words at the ongoing suffering that results from this disease and all that lies beneath it that places our children in such compromise. You will have a voice for others, in time, as you are ready to speak. For now, just as Elisabeth Elliott spoke during her radio program and in her writings.. "just do the next thing."

I will be praying for you and yours in the days and weeks ahead. Please let us know how you are doing.

God bless, Sojourner
 
Posted by pmerv (Member # 1504) on :
 
Funeral arrangements are being made by Ferguson's Funeral Home, Route 94, Vernon, NJ 07462. Visiting hours will take place Tuesday January 15 from 2 to 4pm and 7 to 9pm. The funeral service will be on Wednesday January 16 at 11am. If you have any questions, the funeral home telephone number is 973-827-6600.

Please attend the funeral if you are able, to support the family.
 
Posted by Andie333 (Member # 7370) on :
 
I was so sorry to hear about Adam. My heart goes out to you, Tim, and to your family. And my prayers.

Andie
 
Posted by disturbedme (Member # 12346) on :
 
I'm so sorry. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.
 
Posted by adamm (Member # 11910) on :
 
Oh my god-- my deepest sympathy will be with you! The work I'm

doing now on the cello (this

truly is my prayer) will be done in his honor.
 
Posted by theviewfromthecurb (Member # 10310) on :
 
i don't know what to say... except i feel so sorry

for your loss, and for all the pain you must be

feeling... and just maybe he is finally at peace.

and one day you will be together again, and will

not feel this time you spent apart.

Your words are so sad, but your strength is so

reassuring, for all of us who suffer still.

I will think of your son when i want to be

strong, and know that he died like a Hero in

some way...

take care now, and know that we are all here with

you forever.
 
Posted by Gert (Member # 13584) on :
 
My deepest sympathies to you and your family [group hug]
 
Posted by JRWagner (Member # 3229) on :
 
Tim, we have never met but you are family. If I could, I would hug and support everyone who has lost a loved one to this terrible disease.

Keep his smile in your heart to comfort you forever.

Peace, Love, and Wellness,
JRW
 
Posted by aiden424 (Member # 7633) on :
 
I am so very sorry to hear of your tremendous loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Hugs,
Kathy
 
Posted by LymeCFIDSMCS (Member # 13573) on :
 
I am in tears reading about your loss and I wish my tears could take away even a fraction of the pain you must be feeling, but I know that isn't possible.

Whoever said your son died a hero's death is so right. Having to muster up so much courage so young is heroic. He must have been an incredibly strong young man. I hope you can feel some of that strength as you deal with this pain.

Even if they do, as you wrote, "blame the pills the person but not this dam disease" we know the truth, and we are here to validate your truth, and to speak the truth for Adam.

Sending you much love and comfort.
 
Posted by Michelle M (Member # 7200) on :
 
Tim, I'm so sorry for your unimaginable loss.

I hope you can feel the love and support from even those of us you do not know personally.

It's so hard to imagine losing a child. Please take what comfort and support you receive. I will pray a dream of great peace comes to comfort you as well, from a dimension otherwise unreachable. This happened to me after losing my little brother, and also my fiance. It was an enormous comfort.

Thinking of you,

Michele
 
Posted by trails (Member # 1620) on :
 
Please accept my deepest condolences for your loss. I hope you can share with us more about your son when you feel ready to.

sincerely,
Trails
 
Posted by kelmo (Member # 8797) on :
 
For those of us fighting for the life of our own children, this breaks my heart.

Prayer for protection from the evil one and that you would have God's provision of love and comfort.

You did everything you could, and your son knows it.

So sorry for your precious loss. [Frown]
 
Posted by bettyg (Member # 6147) on :
 
breaking this up for easier reading of details.

quote:
Originally posted by pmerv:

Funeral arrangements are being made by Ferguson's Funeral Home,
Route 94,
Vernon, NJ 07462.

Visiting hours will take place Tuesday January 15 from 2 to 4pm AND 7 to 9pm.
********************************

The funeral service will be on Wednesday January
16 at 11am.
************

If you have any questions, the funeral home telephone number is 973-827-6600.
***********************************


I also hope many of you in NJ might be able to attend either the visitation or funeral to help Tim as he grieves for Adam.


Please attend the funeral if you are able, to support the family. [/QB]


 
Posted by treepatrol (Member # 4117) on :
 
So Sorry
May God comfort you. [group hug]
 
Posted by cbb (Member # 788) on :
 
Those outside the Lyme Community have no idea how devastating this disease can be, but be assured that your LymeNet Family understands.

Several years ago, our support group lost a beautiful 22 yr old young lady who had bravely battled Lyme and co-infections.

Sending love, concern, and support.

May God sustain you and give you the strength you need at this time.
[group hug] [group hug] [group hug]
 
Posted by blackpowder (Member # 13637) on :
 
I'm so sorry for your loss. I don't have any magical words for you, but know you are in my thoughts and prayers. Know this, also, we don't have to know you personally to understand and care.

May comfort be yours,
Tammy
 
Posted by GlenroyWolfsen (Member # 14355) on :
 
I am sorry to hear about the loss of your SON. I lost my daughter, then my wife and then my father - first my daughter from Kidney Failure, then after a time my wife from MS and then right away, my father. My wife and my father died while I was in the middle of Lyme disease myself. So, I have some idea of your state of mind and heart now. I will tell you that my daughter became my HERO when I got very sick - and I held her in my heart and thought of her in each struggle I had. She inspirted me to continue to struggle and have courage. All of these who have left this physical world are still with me and are helping me. This is know and I want to encourage you to remember the struggle and courage of your son and let that inspire you to continue to live life and to offer hope to others, because you have overcome. This is part of my life now - to help encourage others, no matter now I personally may feel God and his Angels Bless you now and bring you through this with love in your heart for all who have this disease. We ALL needs each others love and encouragement and inspiration. Glen from High Bridge, NJ.
 
Posted by MaryL (Member # 11997) on :
 
God bless you & keep you close. I lost my sister in 1978 at the age of 23 to bipolar illness(self-inflicted gunshot wound). We believe she may have had Lyme.

I understand the unique pain that comes from suicide. My son also has Lyme. He's 11. Thank you for sharing your sorrow. I don't know if I can spare my son the same fate as his aunt, but I will continue to battle for all of us.

You are so brave for sharing your experience. I wish I could reach out & hug you. [group hug]
 
Posted by islandgirl (Member # 5914) on :
 
I am so very sorry for your loss.
Your son left this world as a hero who did all he could until he recognized he could do no more here on earth.

My prayers and thoughts are with you and all who have lost loved ones to this horrible disease.
 
Posted by Dancer (Member # 11039) on :
 
I am so very sorry for your loss.

Many are committed to doing what we can to right all the insane wrongs that surround Lyme disease. It makes me so so so angry. We are with you, for ourselves, our family members and friends, suffering people across the country, loved ones and strangers, and you and your son and your family.

Peace to you
 
Posted by JJ (Member # 602) on :
 
I am very sorry to hear about the loss of your son. I cannot imagine the pain in losing someone so young,or the pain and heartache of watching him go through the struggles of this disease.

My heart goes out to you and your family and we will keep you in our prayers.

JJ
 
Posted by OptiMisTick (Member # 399) on :
 


[ 24. February 2008, 11:34 PM: Message edited by: OptiMisTick ]
 
Posted by Carla Southwick (Member # 1521) on :
 
Dear Tim,

This news is overwhelmingly terrible to hear. Anyone who ever met you knew how much you cherish your son.

God comfort him now, and you,in this sorrowful time, and grant you the peace that passes understanding in the time that lies ahead.

I'm so very sorry.

Carla S.


'
 
Posted by joalo (Member # 12752) on :
 
I am so, so sorry!!

JoAnne
 
Posted by Kyrasmom (Member # 11566) on :
 
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I have a 19 year old who is suffering with this terrible disease and i cannot imaging what it would be like without her. I will pray for you that you will have comfort and peace. Again i am truly sorry for your loss. God bless you and your family.
 
Posted by NHgirl (Member # 13585) on :
 
Please accept my depest sympathy and know that you are in my prayers.
 
Posted by aklnwlf (Member # 5960) on :
 
My sincere condolences for you and your family.

Mourning with you......

[group hug]
 
Posted by TS96 (Member # 14048) on :
 
I am so sorry.
Peace,comfort and love to you.


[group hug]
 
Posted by CatCCC (Member # 14262) on :
 
I am so sorry for your loss.

Please accept my condolences. Your family is in my prayers.
 
Posted by MusicMan (Member # 11966) on :
 
Hello

Very sad news, my condolences.


Steve
 
Posted by SBandit (Member # 8881) on :
 
Tim,

Our prayers are surrounding you at this tragic time.
God Bless!!! [Frown]
 
Posted by firsttwin (Member # 5529) on :
 
TO ALL WHO HAVE LOST LOVE ONES:

MY DEEPEST, SINCERE SYMPATHY AND PRAYERS GO OUT TO YOU.

MARIA (firsttwin)
 
Posted by Robin123 (Member # 9197) on :
 
Tim - thinking of you today - just know that we all care and are very sorry for your loss. And support to everyone else too who has lost loved ones.
 
Posted by AZURE WISH (Member # 804) on :
 
[group hug] Aries, I am so sorry for your loss [group hug]
 
Posted by Melanie Reber (Member # 3707) on :
 
Thanks Miss O.
 
Posted by bettyg (Member # 6147) on :
 
OMT, thank you for your poetic words of the service today! So GLAD you were able to attend the church's full house service. [group hug] [kiss]
 
Posted by shazdancer (Member # 1436) on :
 
Tim, You have been in my thoughts all this week, knowing how heavy your heart must feel. Please take care of yourself. We care.

-- Shaz
 
Posted by cheezhead (Member # 12038) on :
 
I am so sorry to hear about your loss, please know we are all here for you.

We have much work to do to change the injustice that lyme patients suffer. god bless
Brandon
 
Posted by mtree (Member # 14305) on :
 
thank you OTM for your post....

I have been thinking of Adam and his family all week.....

sending them lots of prayers .....

so so heartwrenching.....
[Frown] mtree
 
Posted by MommaK (Member # 10376) on :
 
[group hug]
Prayers and love

Thinking of you.

May your loss be eased by knowing how many love and support you.

So sorry for your loss.

MommaK
 
Posted by sometimesdilly (Member # 9982) on :
 
Tim-

i've been thinking and worrying about you since I first heard your terrible news.

I hope you are surrounded by loving friends and family right now and that you will be during the months ahead of fresh grief.

you're living the worst nightmare any parent can have, and one that is all real for those of us who have children with Lyme.

So many of us wish we could help ease your pain, even for a moment. Please let us know if there is anything we can do.

love, dilly [group hug]
 
Posted by Cobweb (Member # 10053) on :
 
http://www.compassionatefriends.org/

I have found great support by attending The Compassionate Friends meetings. I am fortunate in that I have two groups that meet the first and third Wednesday of the month.

For me- talking with other parents who truly understand the depths of pain has allowed me to get my own situation in perspective.

Once we are forced to embark on the journey of grief, we find it is never over, we just learn to find our way-with each other.

At the last meeting I attended Jan. 16th I heard two things that made sense.
1. We do not "move on" after the death of a child, we "continue on".
2. God does not take. God receives.

Recently I attended a conference for Bereaved Parents outside of Philly. The first night at registration, I broke down and sobbed uncontrollably-but I was comforted by the realization that I was surrounded by people who understood. There was no need to apologize .

By Sunday morning I was feeling proud to be part of such a courageous group of people. Unafraid to meet their grief head on-and living their lives to the fullest-inspite of the emptiness.

My children, Barbie and Tommy, died of catastrophic medical complications in Spring 2004.

"We need not walk alone"
YOU need not walk alone.

With love and understanding,
Carol
 
Posted by tdtid (Member # 10276) on :
 
I was so very sorry to hear about the loss of your son. This is every parents worst nightmare and my heart goes out to all of you. I'm so sorry.

Cathy
 
Posted by Dawn in VA (Member # 9693) on :
 
Words never do justice to convey emotions at such a time...

Prayers, thoughts, sympathy, and warmth to you and your family.

Your son's bravery touches us all, as does your loss.
 
Posted by bunnyfluff (Member # 14117) on :
 
I am so very, very sorry for your loss.
 
Posted by bejoy (Member # 11129) on :
 
Still thinking about you, and sorry about your sadness and loss.
 
Posted by WildCondor (Member # 434) on :
 
I'm very sorry to hear about your beloved son.
You have our support and prayers.
 
Posted by Health (Member # 6034) on :
 
I am very sorry to hear about your Son,

I hope that you will be ok. [Smile]


Trish
 
Posted by Draba (Member # 14589) on :
 
I'm so sorry to hear about your son. I am a teen with lyme disease, and I know how difficult it is, although it sounds like I don't have it as badly as your son did.
 
Posted by Boomerang (Member # 7979) on :
 
So sorry to hear. Prayers for you and your family. God Bless.
 
Posted by Niere (Member # 14387) on :
 
I just saw this.

I am so incredibly sorry.

You, your son and your family will be in my prayers.
 
Posted by daise (Member # 13622) on :
 
Aries,

I am so sorry you lost your son, Adam.

He was too young to suffer and die.

I have a suggestion. Do you have a photo of him that you can put on Lymenet?

Yes, come to this site for help. Keep coming.

Hang-in there, OK? Please?

Daise
 
Posted by pingpong (Member # 13706) on :
 
Aries,

My deepest sympathy for your great loss.

ping
 


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