I used to go out with my husband to bars and drink and dance, now that I can't drink anymore we are having a hard time thinking of things to do for fun (besides going to movies). What do you do for fun that doesn't involve drinking?
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We mostly stay at home and watch movies/tv shows.
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- You can still dance.
Regardless of where you are, turn on the music! The stronger one of the two can lead. If both are not up to par, just lean on each other and move to the music.
Have some laughs, make your own kind of magic.
If you can manage the stimuli, you can still go out.
As carbonated water can irritate the stomach lining, that's not great as a standby but once in a while, maybe with some cranberry juice (but, then, you'd have to read the label first).
Just give a tea bag for a tea you know works for you - ask them to ice it for you - and that you will tip them nicely.
Just say for medical reasons, you have to stick to tame beverages but you will see that they are well compensated in tips if they can keep the tea coming.
If you have a couple favorite places, you could call in advance for arrangements. They probably would be happy to help as long as they know there will be some compensation for their service.
You don't have to get buzzed to help them pay the rent or keep the lights on for you. You'll be there for the music and the dance floor. -
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I read books and relax as much as is possible with a small child. Watch tv and enjoy music.
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Movies/TV thats about it. Maybe go to the casino for a few hours. Take Warm Epsom Salt Baths. Play our Xbox Kinect.
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Do you have a pet? I have a cat that loves to play. She hides in boxes, chases me, plays fetch, I never know what she's going to think of next! She brings so much joy and laughter to my life:)
When feel exceptionally bad, my cat comforts me. When I'm sad, she cheers me up. She is a good companion.
If you feel well enough a dog might be good for you. You could take it for walks outside and go to parks. Something to think about if you haven't already.
Do you and your husband still have a couple friends that might like to come over every now and then? You could host a game night. There are lots of silly games that you can get for pretty cheap. Have your guests bring a snack and a soda that they can share. This is guaranteed good clean fun and laughs for all.
It may sound corny if you haven't done it in a while but go to the store and check out some of the new games. They've come out with some really funny creative group games for adults. You will get to know your friends better and have hours of good cheap fun.
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If your preference is otherwise drinking/dancing, try:
Home kareoke Just Dance on Wii A "Taste of [your city]" event Any kind of outdoor festival with a band Free outdoor concerts in the summer Outdoor movie nights Jazz night at your local art museum Ice skating or bowling when they turn the crazy lights on Have friends over for a BBQ Host a silpada/31/other fun sales party with your girlfriends Hit "refresh" again and again on ticketmaster.com until you get tickets for that big deal concert
- OR -
Go out to a bar and dance. It actually doesn't require booze.
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