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Posted by mtree (Member # 14305) on :
 
June 16th will be our 25th wedding anniversary..... [woohoo]

I was bit on our honeymoon..... [Roll Eyes]

Your marriage can survive Lyme....
communication, dedication, commitment, understanding, effort....

I just want people to know that it is hard...extremely hard for both spouses....
It's hard to watch my husband live sometimes and it's hard for him to watch me not......

But through out these years of sickness and sadness there have been many blessings and many happy times and even a lot of laughter....

Not sure where our marriage is headed in the next 25years....but for now...today...this month we celebrate our love & commitment to each other.....

Our vows to each other mean more to us now then they did 25years ago...

Thanks for listening...
[spinning smile] mtree
 
Posted by leadmare (Member # 15431) on :
 
Congrats! Happy Anniversary!

May the next 25 years be blessed!
 
Posted by LymeAware (Member # 26195) on :
 
Thank you mtree. Your post made my day and gives me a big smile. Congratulations to both of you.
 
Posted by sixgoofykids (Member # 11141) on :
 
Congrats!! We just had our 25th last December!! I've had Lyme since before we met, though I had ups and downs until 7 years ago, which is when I only had downs!
 
Posted by Cockapoo1996 (Member # 14238) on :
 
Happy Anniversary!!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=knp9-GY6fHE

Isn't YouTube great?

Definitely the vows mean more now for us too. We didn't know how "for worse" it could get.

But, hopefully soon it will be FOR BETTER!!!
 
Posted by Lymetoo (Member # 743) on :
 
I know someone else who was bitten on their honeymoon. ( not me... I was bitten when I was 8 ) I will PM that to you!!

June 16th is our anniversary too!!! It'll be 37 for us.

I feel the way you do... our vows are even more important to us now. We've been through so much together and we love each other even more now than we did 37 yrs ago.
 
Posted by mtree (Member # 14305) on :
 
thanks everyone!!

Cockapoo thanks for the youtube...I showed Dh too...
very fun and cute [Big Grin]

we are off to Mexico on Sunday [woohoo]

not planning on getting bit by a tick...need to start out the next 25years in hopes for better treatments/more LLMD's/more answers...

[Cool] mtree
 
Posted by greengirl (Member # 25316) on :
 
Congratulations on your anniversary.

And, thank you for posting. We're only married three years and it is such a struggle. Feeling very robbed, in a way.
 
Posted by kam (Member # 3410) on :
 
Wow
 
Posted by lajamur (Member # 24593) on :
 
thank you for your message of hope and dedication.

i am getting married in october to my boyfriend of 4 and a half years. i have lyme and he does not. he is my rock, an angel, but sometimes i feel so bad knowing that in some ways i simply cannot "keep up" with him.. it doesn't seem fair to him. and yet he never falters.

congratulations on your 25 years together and may the next 25 be filled with even more healing and laughter! [Smile]
 
Posted by mtree (Member # 14305) on :
 
so far so good.... [spinning smile]

[Big Grin] mtree
 


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