Hi Ellen,Your story is similar to mine. I became very ill in 1993, with most of the symptoms you describe. Because my bloodwork for RA didn't fit, it wasn't till 2002 that they were beginning to talk about seronegative RA for me.
I was diagnosed with IBS, fibromyalgia, CFIDS, and a host of other things. Finally in 2003 I was tested for Lyme disease and came back very positive.
I never saw a tick or had a rash either. This actually happens fairly often, resulting in folks like you and me who have long term, untreated infections.
Some Lyme folks do have elevated bloodwork for RA, so that does not disqualify you. In fact, many RA people are having good luck taking antibiotics long term, per the Road Back protocol. I suspect many of them may have Lyme infections, though some have mycoplasma.
I'm sorry to hear about your baby's troubles. It has been proven that Lyme can be transmitted congenitally, so it is possible that she has Lyme.
There is an excellent pediatric Lyme doctor that I suggest you contact. He has given permission to post his name on this board. (We don't usually post doctors names on the board.)
Dr Charles Ray Jones
New Haven, CT
Phone: 203 - 772 - 1123
FAX: 1 - 203 - 772 - 0682
You can call and get some advice, and he will often consult with a local doctor.
You should know that some people have found it possible to pass Lyme to your child through breastfeeding, and it is not usually recommended. If you do a search on the board you will find discussions on it.
Here are a couple of links to information on Lyme tranmitted in breastmilk, as well as the possibility that it is sexually transmitted.
Sexual Transmission of Lyme Disease
Lyme Disease in Breast Milk
Lyme: A Lover's Disease, Eli Mordecai Ph.D
I recommend that you find a Lyme Literate Doctor to treat you. Lyme is not a well understood illness, and you want someone with experience, and success in treating their pateints.
International Lyme and Associated Disease Society
Dr. Joseph J. Burrascano's Treatment Guidelines
I'm very sorry to hear that you have Lyme, but glad to see you have found Lymenet. You will find lots of help and support here.