Hi Shelly,What a wonderful friend you are for trying to help this family.
I read their story. Heartbreaking is an understatement. The good part is the mother might be more receptive than the father; and she is able to do research, so I'd give her the information.
If you overload them with info too fast, they will repel. I did that with my brother and failed miserably. He just quit another job because the day-to-day routine is too much for him physically. Even my objective husband believes my brother has LD.
My husband, grown son and I all have LD. I was misdiagnosed for 5 years with myasthenia gravis. I'm trying to think back & remember what I would have done if someone suggested LD.
In retrospect, it would have taken a while to convince me. It probably would have been a slow process for me. Also, back then, I didn't have the internet. And yes, it is extremely hard to overcome a label so adamantly given by a Lyme-ignorant MD.
I wish a friend had suggested LD to me 14 years ago. I wouldn't have declined so much.
Hopefully, you'll get lots of ideas & links from some of the mom's with young children with neuro LD. As Betty & Lymesux said, she could identify with them the most.
I realize the Mother probably wants to see literature showing a direct link between the LD & the autism. Sorry, I don't have that.
Wish I had just the perfect information packet for you.
If you go to Melissa Kaplan's huge website, it explains everything from explaining Western Blots to the constant misinformation about LD. Below is an excellent article, also from her site.
Neuropsychiatric Manifestations of Lyme in Children.
You'll need to scroll down the page to get to the heading, "Encephalopathy, Neurocognitive Impairments and Depression in Lyme."
http://www.anapsid.org/lyme/
Also, here are 19 Reasons Why a Seronegative Test Result Might Occur:
http://flash.lymenet.org/ubb/Forum1/HTML/001744.html
As you know, both the FDA and CDC say Lyme is a clinical diagnosis----I THINK the CDC statement appears at the bottom of most WB lab results. Wish the mom understood that.
After reading information on Lymenet, those equivocals are positives. As Matthew Goss' website says: you can't be just a little bit pregnant.
However, I realize only an LLMD could diagnose that family with LD and try to sort things out.
But even people with chronic conditions can benefit greatly from seeing an LLMD & getting IGENEX tested. It's my understanding the LD will only worsen other chronic conditions. IMHO, all LD is neurological to one degree or another.
My LL/FNP distributes this introductory booklet about LD. You can download from the link below:
www.LymePa.org
"Lyme Disease --- The Basics"
A plain-language introduction to tick-borne diseases.
Published by The Lyme Disease Association of Southeastern Pa., Inc.
It has a detailed symptom list and asks if you have been diagnosed with: ALS; Psychological/psychiatric symptoms & ADHD.
The booklet also lists web references such as Lymenet, ILADS, Dr. B's Guidelines, and LD research at Columbia University.
When the timing is right, I want to give this booklet to my brother.
Hope this helps.
Best Wishes,
Jan