Hey Cindy,I'm with you, I hate the ER as well. But in my case, I was so out of it, I had no choice.
My head hurt so bad I had to squeeze it all the way to the ER in the ambulance, I was projectile vomiting, I kept passing out..I was out of it, so I had no choice but go to the ER.
As for the lumbar puncture, I remember laying there in the ER all doped up on pain pills, crying that I would rather die than have another LP.
I had 2 taps for my c- sections..
And I had 3 lumbar punctures for lyme and meningitis tests. The first one left me looking like a multiple stabbing victim and the doc messed it up so bad I was on Vicodin for 4 months...
The next 2 were done with a flora scope..not so bad.
Anyways, I was putting up such a fuss in the ER that they called in the head of radiology and he came in and did the lumbar puncture..I was so out of it that I'm not sure if it was a flora scope or x-ray of some sort..
But it didn't hurt while he did it ( though I was on pain meds) and I didn't have the spinal headache..so if you have to get an LP, ask if you can get it with a flora scope or x-ray.
In my case, I had Viral Encephalitis.They think it was from west Nile, but it came back inconclusive. I did 10 days of IV antibiotics, 7 days in the hospital and 2 weeks of bed rest and I was back on track.
But it is nothing to mess with... I had never been so sick in my life. The only reason I postponed going to the doc, was that my kids big birthday party was the next day and I had 70 people coming...lucky me, ended up in the hospital and my hubby and family pulled the party off for the kids...
But seriously, if you start projectile vomiting, or have such a bad headache that you feel the need to hit it or something to relive the pressure, get yourself to the ER..okay?
Let me know if I can help in anyway.
By the way, i meant to email you a big thank you for Mikayla's doll, she loved it. My computer has been down and I am just now getting back on line.
But we are working on thank you cards and we should be mailing them out this weekend...I'm a little slow these days 
But I just wanted to thank you and let you know that she truly loved her knew baby!
Best wishes!
~LymeBrat