Nal
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Looks like I am having a miscarriage. Ill know for sure when I get another blood test on Sunday. Im sad and frustrated.
Nancy
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Jill E.
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Nancy,
I am so sorry. You have been through such a rollercoaster with your own health and now with your pregnancy. My thoughts are with you and your family.
Jill
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Wish I could say something that helps...but here's another hug
and another
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Hi Nancy I am so very sorry to hear your bad news, My prayers are with you & the baby.
I have to tell you that ,I was very fertile my whole life and had no issues until after the tickbite. I lost a child( Dr. thought likely twins) early in the pregnancy when I was in my mid thirties around the time I was 1st bitten. I Never understood how & why till I was diagnosed 7 years later and though at the time of the loss I attributed it to stress in my marriage at the time , I now realize it was Lyme affecting me in this way.. Now I am in some sort of post menopause pretty early in life which sucks too..I am only getting one or to cycles a year..We had planned on maybe having a child.. My current husband & I but do not kno if that will be a possibility. I have grown up children I had when young, But he has none & did want one.. My clock is ticking though due to my age etc..lyme sure didn't help.
I will keep you in my thoughts, take care.. Sandi
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I too want to say how sorry I am. Losing a child at any stage is a mother's worse nightmare. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.
Cathy
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I am so sorry. My thoughts and prayers are with you. I've been through the same situation multiple times. Take care.
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Nal
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Thanks guys. Funny thing is that I didn't think i wanted another baby until I lost one. Weird huh? I had Audrey while dealing with Lyme. I know I can have more children if I decide to. We'll see what happens.
Im in a full miscarriage now. Going in tomorrow (yes, on Christmas eve) to have a blood test repeated.
You guys are the best though-thank you, thank you for the support-has meant so much to me.
Nancy
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So sorry. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.
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Sorry Nal. Been there
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Truthfinder
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Gosh, Nance, I'm so sorry. What a tough time of the year for this to happen, too.
Well, I have to believe that God knows what he is doing in these situations. I hope you believe that, as well.
Tracy
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Nancy, I am so sorry. My thoughts are with you, ella Posts: 2557 | From home | Registered: Aug 2006
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Sorry to hear this. Not easy at any time, but especially hard at this time of year.
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I am so sorry. I, too, believe that I miscarried about a week ago. It was very early - maybe 4 weeks or less - without having confirmed that I was pregnant. But I am pretty certain I was. And then pretty certain that I was miscarrying - in a way that we know our bodies pretty well.
I was very nervous about it - with the meds and everything that I was / am on. I went off of most of them when I realized I was probably pregnant, but I still worried about others that it would take time to get off of.
I can't imagine what you are going through, but I know that I was / am fairly sad about it. I look at mine as sort of a blessing in some ways.
I wish I could help, but all I can do is send my best. You can make it through this. We're all here for you. I am sorry.
Sara
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Boomerang
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I am so sorry to hear this, Nancy.
God Bless you......
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Nal, I'm so sorry that this illness has caused such a loss for you. It truly robs us of so much.
Pam
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Oh my dear, I am so sorry. We never forget our little ones that didn't make it. Blessings on you and the baby, and a great big hug.
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Sorry if I sound harsh but it probably is for the better, embryos/foetuses that don't make it are mainly not viable. Nature's way of not bringing into the world humans who won't have much of a chance of a good healthy life.
Plus, if you are still battling Lyme...hmmm...not such a great thing to have a baby.
Concentrate on yourself and on your family, good luck
Nelly
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Nancy, we haven't heard from you - are you okay?
Tracy
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i'm thinking of you....sending prayers your way...
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