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bettyg
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mo, thanks for your update. so glad dilly and all other suggestions are helping you.

best wishes today with the person helping you! praying it all goes WELL !! [group hug] [kiss]

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Mo-

the info about Clinton's constituency services was FYI, so you are prepared to counter staff telling you what can't be done for you.

You're right- you should definitely call. I'll work this AM on finding the appropriate staff member.

I'll PM that to you when I get it, as well as the research I've done on the rehab facility, some of which may be very pertinent to a conversation with Clinton's office.

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Mo I am so sorry.

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If there is anything I can do pleasse let me know.


Praying for you and your family.


Melissa


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Mo-

PM'ing you with info....

edit- just sent... it took awhile to type .

[kiss]

[ 22. September 2008, 12:06 PM: Message edited by: sometimesdilly ]

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Mo
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thanks so very much dilly,

checking it out now. i'm trying to be prepared for assistance, while at the same time not wanting to intimidate or **** off the facility we need help from.

i've learned fighting doesn't win, but phrasing a true plea for help with the subtle alert to the facility that we have legislative support for our son's needs, could.

thanks for the info, i'm sure i'll be able to do something with it.

mo

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mo... your daughter has some birthday greetings over in General! [group hug]

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sometimesdilly
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Mo- just PM'd you the last installment of info...

I agree with you that articulating a reasonable and compelling plea for help will work much better than attacking.

As my grandmother used to say, you can attract more flies with honey.

least,i think that was what she said, tho after typing it can't say it makes a bit of sense.
oh well.

dill

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ok.. actually looked up that expression- whole thing is "you can attract more flies with honey than with vinegar."

still 1/2 a huh? anyway. sorry for complete non sequitor, Mo....

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ah... so what can i attract with good old irish whiskey?

besides charlie. [Razz]

we still have no answers, just thought it was time for a laugh.

thanks again for all of this help.

mo

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i thought charlie was more a Corona with lemon man, so he presents with both the sweet (hops) AND the bitter (lemon)..

so maybe he makes flies feel ambivalent? [Big Grin]

hugs to you Mo, and glad you can take a moment to laugh..

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up for r.

hospital has tackled an external appeal for us, and thank god still keeping him as per his need.

we have to keep our fingers crossed and with all the help and support received i feel hopeful despite the odds against him.

lithium was doubled today.. many tbd symptoms are present, he is on mino and rifampin and if (no, when) we get to the tbi/abi sub-acute care facility the next battle is keeping him on tbd treatment.

there was some movement in the direction toward the tbi program today, but not fully secured.

thanks for all of the help here, much of it has or will help somehow.

mo

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Aha....Irish whiskey with a beer chaser....you and dilly got my attention.

I wish I could help you with the legalese Mo but my expertise is in self treating and abx combos...though still amateur.

But If you need a shoulder I'm always here.

Charlie

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Mo-

sorry,didn't see your PM til this am- just replied.

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Up for more ideas and prayers for Mo and family. lmt
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Mo-

unbelievable. i'm so sorry you're going to have to go through another round.

am PM'ing you [group hug]

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Mo-

unbelievable. i'm so sorry you're going to have to go through another round.

am PM'ing you [group hug]

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Dear Mo,


Your family is in my prayers.

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Dear Mo,


Your family is in my prayers.

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hey charlie,

i could use that shoulder about now.

the external appeal was denied for insurance, so i'm sure our welcome at the hospital my son is in will be worn thin by monday.

at the same time, the brain rehab facility as issued a discriminatory, arbitrary and capricious denial of my son for admittance, after leading us around by the nose for a month.

this leaves us in the nightmarish position i was so afraid of. no more hospital stay, unless they keep him based purely on medical need and charity.. and no place lined up to go.

i have tried to fight the brain rehab denial with a letter documenting the outrageous verbal denial reasons given, and cc'd many local legislators, plus the heads of the company. that may or may not help.

meanwhile, we have to find some placement where he will be kept safe until stable.

lithium is unclear as to whether it's helping at all, it definitely has not made him stable enough to be safe at home or in the community.

i sit here wondering how this can happen. guess it's about time i rent the movie sicko, cuz we're living it.

still fighting, there must be a solution. please keep up any good thoughts you might send our way.
i really appreciate them.


mo

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mo, [group hug] [kiss]


i can't be their physically for you, but this as close as i can get to you right now!


i'm so sorry for you!! people weretossing out ideas like crazy; it's ridiculous nothing worked.


we have many LAWYERS on this board, and i have referred some to your post hoping they could give "general" info without jeopardising their licenses. i hope they may have PMed you with any ideas they have.


god, please help mo's family with their very ill son! please provide them a miracle by showing them the way. amen. [group hug] [kiss]

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up, even tho you can't see what i wrote!
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MO, PROBLEM IS FINALLY FIXED!!!

page 3 now shows plus ALL of our invisible replies i think!!??

i'll check mine out as i go.


your pm box should be there? is it FULL???
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Mo
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thanks betty.

no, my pm box is not full, so anyone with ideas, fire away.

many have offered help that i'm following up on actively, but the situation remains dire.

dilly has given me allot about admission regs, the insurance went to external appeal already so i don't think we can fight that, just need to know how to fight hospital discharge.

without sub-acute neurobehavioral rehab care in place, he cannot safely be discharged. we'll figure out the horrific money situation later.

priority is medical necessity and safety.

...and, with our situation, they can't draw blood from a stone anyway. ugh.

mo

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Mo,

So sorry for all you are going through.

Wish I had some other ideas.

Keeping you and your family in my prayers.

Bea Seibert

P.S. Do have one question? Was the external appeal with the state insurance commission or who?

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we're drawn, but not quartered. what a rediculous situation.

we're trying with a new hospital tomorrow.

please keep us in your thoughts. something's gotta give.

mo

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we will.

[group hug]

dilly

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mo,

do your pms go to your HOME INBOX? mine do.

i keep anything i want THERE, and delete it from my PM box on lymenet since 60 posts are quick to fill up to.


can you check thru your INBOX for pms/replies sent on "afraid my son will die".


myself, i start a file with specific name, and put all those in there since i'm so disorganized any more.


wishing you well on finding all the info everyone has given you! betty [group hug] [kiss]

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