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Thought for the day....... "I looked for my soul but my soul I could not see. I looked for my God but my God eluded me. I looked for a friend and then I found all three." William Blake (1757-1827)
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Thought for the day....... "When a person has a real friend, he learns not only to appreciate another human being, but he also learns to understand himself better." Susan Polis Schutz
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Thought for the day....... "To listen is to lean in with a willingness to be changed by what you hear." Mark Nepo
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Thought for the day....... "Friendship is, strictly speaking, reciprocal benevolence, which inclines each party to be solicitous for the welfare of the other as for his own." Plato (428-348 BC)
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Thought for the day....... ``He is a wise man who does not grieve for the things which he has not, but rejoices for those which he has.'' Epictetus
Happy Thanksgiving!
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Thought for the day....... "Words were never invented to fully explain the peaceful aura that surrounds us when we are in communion with minds of the same thoughts." Eddie Myers
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Thought for the day....... "There is no such thing as a worthless conversation, provided you know what to listen for. And questions are the breath of life for a conversation." James Nathan Miller
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Thought for the day....... "The friend who can be silent with us in a moment of despair or confusion, who can stay with us in an hour of grief and bereavement, who can tolerate not knowing, not curing, not healing and face with us the reality of our powerlessness, that is a friend who cares." Henri Nouwen
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Thought for the day....... "Talking is like playing on the harp; there is as much in laying the hands on the strings to stop their vibration as in twanging them to bring out their music." Oliver Wendell Holmes
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Thought for the day....... "One measure of friendship consists not in the number of things friends can discuss, but in the number of things they need no longer mention." Clifton Fadiman
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Thought for the day....... "Listening looks easy, but it's not simple. Every head is a world." Cuban Proverb
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Thought for the day....... "Being heard is so close to being loved that for the average person they are almost indistinguishable." David Augsburger
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Thought for the day....... "Perhaps the most important thing we bring to another person is the silence in us, not the sort of silence that is filled with unspoken criticism or hard withdrawal. The sort of silence that is a place of refuge, of rest, of acceptance of someone as they are. We are all hungry for this other silence. It is hard to find. In its presence we can remember something beyond the moment, a strength on which to build a life. Silence is a place of great power and healing." Rachel Naomi Remen
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Thought for the day....... "Dogs never talk about themselves but listen to you while you talk about yourself, and keep up an appearance of being interested in the conversation." Jerone K. Jerome
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Thought for the day....... "The right to be heard does not automatically include the right to be taken seriously." Hubert H. Humphrey
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Thought for the day....... "The biggest mistake is believing there is one right way to listen, to talk, to have a conversation - or a relationship." Deborah Tannen
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Thought for the day....... "I remind myself every morning: Nothing I say this day will teach me anything. So if I'm going to learn, I must do it by listening." Larry King
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Thought for the day....... ``Be like the sun for grace and mercy. Be like the night to cover others' faults. Be like running water for generosity. Be like death for rage and anger. Be like the Earth for modesty. Appear as you are. Be as you appear.'' Rumi
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Thought for the day....... "Don't be afraid to take advice. There's always something new to learn." Babe Ruth
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Thought for the day....... "To see your drama clearly is to be liberated from it." Ken Keyes, Jr.
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Thought for the day....... "Every friendship that lasts is built of certain durable materials. The first of these is truthfulness. If I can look into the eyes of my friend and speak out always the truthful thought and feeling with the simplicity of a little child, there will be a real friendship between us." Bertha Conde
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Thought for the day....... "You can practice deep listening in order to relieve the suffering in us, and in the other person. That kind of listening is described as compassionate listening. You listen only for the purpose of relieving suffering in the other person." Thich Nhat Hanh
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Thought for the day....... "The best mirror is an old friend." George Herbert (1593-1633)
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Thought for the day....... "True friendship is a plant of slow growth, and must undergo and withstand the shocks of adversity before it is entitled to the appellation." George Washington
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Thought for the day....... "When we seek to discover the best in others, we somehow bring out the best in ourselves." William Arthur Ward
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Thought for the day....... "Lots of people want to ride with you in the limo, but what you want is someone who will take the bus with you when the limo breaks down." Oprah Winfrey
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Thought for the day....... "As I love nature, as I love singing birds, and gleaming stubble, and flowing rivers, and morning and evening, and summer and winter, I love thee my friend." Henry David Thoreau (1817-1862)
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Thought for the day....... "A good listener tries to understand what the other person is saying. In the end he may disagree sharply, but because he disagrees, he wants to know exactly what it is he is disagreeing with." Kenneth A. Wells
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Thought for the day........ "Deceiving someone for his own good is a responsibility that should be shouldered only by the gods." Henry S. Haskins
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Thought for the day........ "When we were children, we used to think that when we were grown-up we would no longer be vulnerable. But to grow up is to accept vulnerability - To be alive is to be vulnerable." Madeleine L'Engle
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Thought for the day........ "At the end of your life, you will never regret not having passed one more test, not winning one more verdict or not closing one more deal. You will regret time not spent with a husband, a friend, a child, or a parent." Barbara Bush
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Thought for the day....... "When a person has a real friend, he learns not only to appreciate another human being, but he also learns to understand himself better." Susan Polis Schutz
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Thought for the day........ "Blessed are they who have the gift of making friends, for it is one of God's best gifts. It involves many things, but above all, the power of going out of one's self, and appreciating whatever is noble and loving in another." Thomas Hughes
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Thought for the day........ "The greatest gift you can give another is the purity of your attention." Richard Moss
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Thought for the day........ "Attention is the rarest and purest form of generosity." Simone Weil
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Thought for the day........ "I will honor Christmas in my heart, and try to keep it all the year." Charles Dickens
Merry Christmas!!
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Thought for the day........ "The invariable mark of wisdom is to see the miraculous in the common." Ralph Waldo Emerson
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Thought for the day........ "The reality of the other person is not in what he reveals to you, but in what he cannot reveal to you. Therefore, if you would understand him, listen not to what he says but rather what he does not say." Kahlil Gibran
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Thought for the day........ "The fundamental delusion of humanity is to suppose that I am here and you are there." Yasutani Roshi
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Thought for the day........ ``All human beings are also dream beings. Dreaming ties all mankind together.'' Jack Kerouac
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Thought for the day........ "The most important things are the hardest to say, because words diminish them." Stephen King
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Thought for the day........ "We need old friends to help us grow old and new friends to help us stay young." Letty Cottin Pogrebin
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Thought for the day........ "Year's end is neither an end nor a beginning but a going on, with all the wisdom that experience can instill in us." Hal Borland
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Thought for the day........ "A new year is unfolding - like a blossom with petals curled tightly concealing the beauty within." Anonymous
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Thought for the day........ "What sweetness is left in life, if you take away friendship? Robbing life of friendship is like robbing the world of the sun. A true friend is more to be esteemed than kinsfolk." Marcus Tullius Cicero
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Thought for the day........ "One friend, one person who is truly understanding, who takes the trouble to listen to us as we consider a problem, can change our whole outlook on the world." Dr. E. H. Mayo
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Thought for the day........ "If we listened to our intellect, we'd never have a love affair. We'd never have a friendship. We'd never go into business because we'd be cynical. Well that's nonsense. You've got to jump off cliffs all the time and build your wings on the way down." Ray Bradbury
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Thought for the day........ "A new idea is delicate. It can be killed by a sneer or a yawn; it can be stabbed to death by a quip, and worried to death by a frown on the right man's brow." Charlie Brower
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Thought for the day........ "Wisdom lies neither in fixity nor in change, but in the dialectic between the two." Octavio Paz
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Thought for the day........ "We need a variety of input and influence and voices. You cannot get all the answers to life and business from one person or from one source." Jim Rohn
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