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Geneal, Last time we moved our children were 10 and under. Sometimes you just can't help overdoing when you have a family. It is a hard price to pay.
We stacked everything in the garage. I set up the kitchen, then had the kids rooms set up. I wanted them to feel settled as quickly as possible.
Then I took my time. My goal was just a few boxes a day. I would look at the pile in the morning and just think that I would never get through it. But little by lttle it did get done.
I did organize the boxes and everything was labeled. Even being as organized as I could, it took time.
Your health is more important than a pile of boxes. If your children are old enough, maybe they can have a goal of one box a day.
Good luck, moving is never easy. We just have more of a challenge, just take care of yourself first.
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lymednva
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I'm paying for doing PT, and it's really not optional, if I want to use my right arm again.
I tried the slow method of unpacking and now 14 months later I'm still at it! I don't think there is an easy way for us to move.
Get some rest, and then slow down your pace. The stuff is not going anywhere.
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Go as slowly as you can!! Wish I could come help!! ( not that I'd be of much REAL help!! )
When we moved in Feb, most everything went into the garage unless I knew exactly which room it should go into.
Half the junk is still in the garage. Who cares!?
Most of it is out of the way and lining the walls of the garage. I can still get the car inside. Cool!!
Please take care of yourself and leave plenty of time for sleeping each night!!!!
geneal
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bettyg
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geneal,
i agree with everyone else above.
do ONLY ESSENTIALS NOW and PACE yourself while doing it.
loved tutu's part .... alot of stuff is still in the garage, but i can get my car in there!!
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MY suggestion "MORE cabanna boys!!"
Read that as anyone that will HELP,beg, borrowed, or stole!!
ANY option of hiring day help from an employment place??
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kam
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I don't know about you but I think there is a relationship between adrenaline and lyme.
My adrenaline alone would have been very high with the thought of moving and then wanting to get settled in.
Then, I would have the crash.
Been there. Done that. Took months to recover.
Having help is good but also tricky.
Praying you will get some good help and hoping husband's boss will have some over time for him to pay for the help. and keep husband busy while you are settling in.
How about camp for the kids.
Just...darn can't recall what that is..brain storming??
Take care of you!
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Geneal
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I just knew you all would understand.
Computer is now officially installed in new house.
Yay!!!!
I did about 8 loads of laundry with about 30 more to go.
My neighbors, God Bless them, came and got my children to play with their child.
They had my rug rats from about 2:30 to almost 8:00.
I got a book case moved. A table moved. Toys moved.
Had a quiet dinner with husband and then went and gathered up my children.
I have to admit though a bath (a real one in a garden tub) is absolute heaven.
My children think it is heaven too.
I did better today without the husband. Was able to sit when I had to.
Problem was I didn't want to get up.
Lots of hugs and kisses to you all.
Geneal
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oooooooo... that bath tub sounds wonderful!!
I must agree with the adrenaline remarks made previously...
Blah!!
Glad someone brought it up.
I know my body can't handle the adrenaline rushes... feel like i'm gonna explode.
Hope youre on the upside today!
With Sincerity, The Future LLMD ...Not current
-------------------- "So I decided to tell my neurologist everything I felt. I said, "I can't think straight, my neck hurts, my muscles are weak, I'm nauseous, I have vision problems....." My doctor's response: "Sounds like Glaucoma." Un/misdiagnosed 15 years. Dx 12/07 Posts: 11 | From USA | Registered: Jun 2008
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I can so relate! I made a whirlwind 1,000 trip to Texas and back for Father's Day and today I can hardly move. First thing I did last night was soak in my big ole garden spa tub. Best upgrade we made when we moved in to our new home 2 years ago!!!
Congrats on all the firsts in your new home. And remember... it will all get done! Some day, some how. It took you 3 years to get into this house... so what if it takes you another 3 to unpack!?
-C
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