kam
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This was on my AOL page when I opened it up.
Don't know if anyone is brave enough to post their mate must haves...but thought it would be interesting. I know my must haves have changed since coming down with lyme disease.
Rule No. 2 Identify What You Really Want From Love
Everybody's got a list of ''mate must-haves.'' Those are the things that you absolutely, positively, MUST HAVE in order to even give a guy or girl the time of day. Write it all down so you'll know the minute you've come across a candidate, otherwise, you'll be shooting in the dark.
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AZURE WISH
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1. Must not get mad at me or bail becuase of all the "can't" lyme has imposed on my life that i have no control over.
I never seem to get past number 1.
If you are asking what my ideal guy would be -
well here it is in random order (note this is an ideal list)
- nice
- intelligent
- creative
- no control issues
- not a sociopath
- funny (or at least doesnt take everything seriously)
- doesnt think art is stupid
- does not have kids and understands that I am not having them....ever.
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That sounds like a good list for my taste- but she has to like music and the outdoors, too... As for my mate (as opposed to Mate...), I like the "eco-teas" "fairly traded" stuff-- I have a cup right here..... DaveS
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Loribelle
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quote:Originally posted by HaplyCarlessdave: That sounds like a good list for my taste- but she has to like music and the outdoors, too... As for my mate (as opposed to Mate...), I like the "eco-teas" "fairly traded" stuff-- I have a cup right here..... DaveS
MMM! With a few drops of grade b maple syrup!
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Loribelle
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HOW TO MAKE A WOMAN HAPPY
It's not difficult to make a woman happy...
A MAN ONLY NEEDS TO BE:
1. a friend 2. a companion 3. a lover 4. a brother 5. a father
6. a master 7. a chef 8. an electrician 9. a carpenter 10. a plumber
11. a mechanic 12. a decorator 13. a stylist 14. a sexologist 15. a gynecologist
16. a psychologist 17. a pest exterminator 18. a psychiatrist 19. a healer 20. a good listener
21. an organizer 22. a good father 23. very clean 24. sympathetic 25. athletic
45. give her compliments regularly 46. love shopping 47. be honest
48. be very rich 49. not stress her out 50. not look at other girls
AND AT THE SAME TIME, YOU MUST ALSO:
51. give her lots of attention, but expect little yourself 52. give her lots of time, especially time for herself 53. give her lots of space, never worrying about where she goes
IT IS VERY IMPORTANT:
54. Never to forget: * birthdays * anniversaries * or any arrangements she makes.
HOW TO MAKE A MAN HAPPY
1. Show up naked 2. Bring food 3. Bring beer!
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AZURE WISH
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kam
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Must Like Dogs...well at least my Standard Black Poodle SErvice Dog named Rosie. Posts: 15927 | From Became too sick to work or do household chores in 2001. | Registered: Dec 2002
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stymielymie
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I DON'T KNOW WHAT MY MATE WANTS, SHE LEFT 2 WEEKS AGO.
SO I GUESS SHE'S NOT LYME COMPATABLE. LOL
AZURE I MEET ALL THOSE CRITERIA.
DOCDAVE
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Can I throw a mates must have in here???
I think a lady mate of mine would HAVE to have a 1969 Hugger orange,black stripes, with a black vinyl roof and white interior Z-28 Camaro,,,then we can 'talk' about anything left over...
And that LONG list from above,,,yep,,,sounded about right!!!
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kam
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YEP. Good treats or rewards are a must.
Unconditional love would be good too.
And always happy to see me.
You don't have to wag your tail though. I really hope you don't have a tail to tell the truth.
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trueblue
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quote:Originally posted by Kendrick: Women usually feed me beef jerky and I do what they want. That's about it. Beef Jerky.
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kam
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mMany moons ago, I Had a coffee cup with mate wanted on it.
The ad read must do dishes and put them away, must do laundry and fold it neatly and put it away, must iron, must do gardening, must take cars in for service, must take care of children, must work full time outside of house with adequate pay and benefits, must drive kids to soccer practice, must do grocery shopping, must cook nutritious meals, must go to meetings at childrens school, must be a plumber, must be an electrian..etc. etc. etc.
In other words...must be a single mom.
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