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HEATHERKISS
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WOW! I feel so ignorant. I will
say Lyme Disease from now on.

Thanks for bringing it to my attention.


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Yeah, it seems that Lymes is still alive and kicking. Ugh, I even hate "saying" it!

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I would like to take this opportunity for anyone that does not like the term "lymies" to clarify that my username is a play on the word "stymied" - which means stuck or unable to proceed due to obstacle - thought it was a cute play on words "Lymied" - it is not a lymie that has been initiated into the lymies order. Personally I like the term Lymies though...because normally only fellow lyme sufferers use it so it is like a proverbial secret handshake to me while "Lymes" does make the few hairs on the back of my neck stand straight up...but I think this is because I feel that if a person is using this term they have done no research and don't understand it...I find it acceptable in the general public but not in the medical community...
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I am a "newbie" and an offender. I had no idea it made a difference how you said it.

I would also like to say I come from a part of the country that we "don't have lyme disease". So little is heard of it in this area. It is common to get a tick bite, but you take some antibiotics short term, and it's gone.

My brother had cat scratch fever when we were little. My mom took in some stray kittens when we were cooped up with chicken pox. They took a biopsy of his lymph gland because they thought it was cancer.

He was treated, but neither me or my sister were and we all played with the kittens.

So little is known of viruses or bacterias and little is done to treat.

I am very greatful for this dicussion board and I have learned so much. It gives me confidence that my dr is doing the right thing and I am greatful to have found my dr.

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Just want to add my two cents worth. I'm like everyone else here. I sooo hate to hear Lymes. The doc who diagnosed me called in Lymes and he was from PA. And the icing on the cake is my last name since I married is Seal. So everyone calls me Seals.

"Hi I'm H. Seals and I have Lymes Disease."

It makes me see red or should I say green....

It's almost my favorite but my favorite has to be "BUT YOU DON'T LOOK SICK" I love it!!!

Keep keeping on ya'll.......

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I hate it when people call it Lymes. It irritates me when people use punctuation incorrectly. However, I know for sure that I am not as swift spellingwise or punctuationwise or simply wise.

I had a friend who used to play around with punctuation and call it Masterpieces Theater and talk about hurting my feeling. This still makes me laugh, although I can't always remember why I am laughing.

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I believe that if were are this picky
about it being called the right thing,
that is WHY we are not going to be taken
seriously.

Who cares wether it is called Limes, or lymies, or however they want to pronounce it, let it go.

HONESTLY, I really feel that this kind of thing makes us a laughing stock.
I mean, if one has cancer, the person who has cancer does not care how the Dr pronouncues it.

When lyme gets around, it will be called the right thing, as more Dr's are aware of this, they will call it the right name.

I know when we are sick, little things get to us, but I HOPE you dont say this to a DR when you are getting treatment, because
it is like YOU know it all and how to prounoune it.

POSSIBLY if we arent that nit picky about this name, we will be taken more seriously.

Some do have OCD with lyme, so maybe these people get bothered by the name.
and maybe because we are so short tempered from loosing many of our lives, the fullness of them, little things bother them.

I want to get better, I dont care what they call it.

Trish


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Trish I think you hit on something here with the whole Lyme - Lymes debate...I think the fact people call it Lyme's is a constant reminder of how few people understand it and this reality is a sad one when you are so sick with it...it is this lack of understanding that leaves chronic lyme sufferers feeling isolated and alone...I shouldn't speak for everyone but that I think is why I can't stand the term "Lymes"...
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quote:
Originally posted by Lymied:
Trish I think you hit on something here with the whole Lyme - Lymes debate...I think the fact people call it Lyme's is a constant reminder of how few people understand it and this reality is a sad one when you are so sick with it...it is this lack of understanding that leaves chronic lyme sufferers feeling isolated and alone...I shouldn't speak for everyone but that I think is why I can't stand the term "Lymes"...

I agree, for what it's worth.

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It doesnt bother me at all. Lyme is not corect and neither is Lyme's. Both are a nickname only.

The correct name and toxonomy is Bacteria; Spirochaetes; Spirochaetes (class); Spirochaetales; Spirochaetaceae; Borrelia. Borrelia burgdorferi.

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Like when people say Wal Marts.
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Many of the people who call it Lyme's are either doubtful ducks and JDs who know zilch about it, or clueless people who are using it in a condescending or dubious manner. This only enhances my loathing for the term Lyme's.
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quote:
Originally posted by pattiecake:
Like when people say Wal Marts.
pattiecake


Yup, that too!

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Well, at least noone calls it Lime or Limes...yet

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This is an old post (2003) yet still relevant. Considering we've had to educate most gp's about this illness, it doesn't surprise anyone that that includes the correct name eh?

Actually, it's more than irking, it's frightening to think that ignorance on the medical communities' part has lasted this long!

We fight for diagnosis, for proper treatment,for understanding etc. so this comes as no surprise..


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Wow.. 2 years later and it still bugs me

Health said:

I believe that if were are this picky
about it being called the right thing,
that is WHY we are not going to be taken
seriously. Who cares wether it is called Limes, or lymies, or however they want to pronounce it, let it go.
HONESTLY, I really feel that this kind of thing makes us a laughing stock.

POSSIBLY if we arent that nit picky about this name, we will be taken more seriously.

lymied said:

Trish I think you hit on something here with the whole Lyme - Lymes debate...I think the fact people call it Lyme's is a constant reminder of how few people understand it and this reality is a sad one when you are so sick with it...it is this lack of understanding that leaves chronic lyme sufferers feeling isolated and alone...I shouldn't speak for everyone but that I think is why I can't stand the term "Lymes"...

I agree whole heartedly with Lymied. I don't think wanting a disease that has devastated my family, being called by it's correct (common ) name is making me, or the lyme community a laughing stock..

Nor do I think it makes doctors or other healthcare officials take us, or the seriousness of this disease less seriously.

In fact, I see it as the total opposite. If we want to get the word out there about Lyme Disease, then we need to use the correct (common) name. Lyme Disease.

To allow professionals to continue to call it "Lymes", is basically allowing them to remain ignorant about Lyme and the seriousness of Lyme.

It is also an injustice to all of us who have spent years trying to get the word out there about Lyme disease and it's dangers...

After all, how can we expect a doctor to become educated about Lyme Disease, if he/she isn't even calling it by the right name??? Yet alone looking up the right name for their research?

In my opinion, if a doctor uses the word "Lymes", it shows me that he is ignorant when it comes to this disease.

And having 2 young children who suffer from Lyme and having Lyme myself, I refuse to put our lives in the hands of a doctor who isn't educated enough about this disease to even call it by it's correct ( common) name!

Just my 2 cents..

~Lymebrat


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ok, so I still suffer from grammatical irritation..sue me

[This message has been edited by krazykt1 (edited 05 June 2005).]


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Health,

I coulnt agree more.

What if there is a Dr. who is willing to treat Lyme but calls it Lymes.

Are we going to 'hate' him/her for it??

I was always taught that 'hate' is a very strong word and should only be used for major things such as, "I hate it when a child molester goes free", not "I hate it when people mispronounce a word."


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lol, If you find a doc willing to treat lyme that calls it lyme's...RUN ! ( a little humor here)
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My mother in law who's daughter is sick with this too spelled it "Limes" in an email...

and my Mom despite the fact I have corrected her three times calls it "Lymes"...

Makes me nuts but makes me all the more determined to educate...


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I correct folks who say "Lymes"..... finally got my therapist to say Lyme ..... I then thank her for learning the correct name.

I try to be kind or humorus in asking folks to use the correct word.

robi

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This disease has devastated so many lives...unrecognized by the Gov't, Physicians, and Big Money in a way that may in the future it may be looked upon ...in my opinion, to be close to apartheid, or ethnic cleansing.


In the same respect...if we called Hilter, Hitlers or ****ler....isn't that a sign of disrespect?

This is a mighty foe we face here...and it should out of respect for what it has, is and will be doing to the masses be called by its formal nickname. (Hell in a bug)

That name is;

Lyme.

The name was derived from a single town...

Heck...they don't call the Caribean Islands the Caribeans do they? lol


Trout


PS....Until we educate everyone properly..it is imperative that we get them to call it by its REAL name. Why? This IS an actual indication of the Physician or person level of intelligence in that particular region.

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My sister was taken by ambulance to hosp 2 days ago after having had a liver transplant 2 months ago because of lyme. It destroyed her own liver.

The hosp said she has a raging bacterial infection of "unknown origin" Of course she has been on antirejection drugs (steroids). We all know what steroids do to lyme and co infections.

According to her specialists "there is no lyme in BC" One said "lymes is a myth" Should this make me feel confident? It does'nt. So I'm asking for your prayers for Wendy. thanks, kt


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Lyme itself is only a nickname. It is not the proper name.

If we are going to crawl over people for saying Lymes, then we must crawl over others for not saying the correct microbiology taxonomy.

I have a great LLMD and he NEVER calls it Lyme. He calls it from its taxonomy.

Out of all the ourages in the world, this is the least of them.

There could be someone out there who has English as a 2nd language and so they call it Lymes...How dare they not pronounce English properly.

What if a person has a lisp and it sounds like Lymes, but really they are trying to say Lyme...they should know better!? How dare they have a lisp.

I was taken by ambulance and they put down I was blind instead of having Lyme. It was an honest mistake. Big deal. They had probably been working all day.

Someone asked me why they didnt call it the Lemon disease. Big deal. They had never heard of Lyme, CT.

You take ignorance and work with it. But I dont 'hate' lack of correct spelling or pronunciation.

This is silly. There are more important things. Move on. If this is the most insulting thing in your life, G-d Bless you!

Believe it or not, there probably is a deaf Lyme person out there who would LOVE, absolutly LOVE to hear the word Lymes. We should all grateful that we have hearing instead of being insulted by what we hear.

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This is semantics. I don't think anyone said they hated anyone. The issue is not being able to tolerate the ignorance in all respects of this illness.

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up again
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quote:
Originally posted by ucla22:
I hate the term all together. I like saying I have a bacterial infection. Lyme is so lame, why not a better name. When people ask what kind I say Borellia. Whatever floats your boat.

Why not say you have been taken over by the devil and now you are going through an exorcism to get him out!! cuz that is what it feels like
LL

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It didn't use to bother me to hear "lymies", but NOW it does. It really irritates me for some reason. I always correct them, which I know is kind of ridiculous.

It feels like someone is further discounting the severity of what we have, which of course these people are not doing. But, I guess, so many have and I've gotten a bit touchy on the subject.

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Gosh and I thought I was the only one who winced at the word Lymes.

The citrus fruit thing was funny and actually flickered something in my brain. I think (and this is the general idea) that I remember learning about lymies in nursing school. It had something to do with sailors??? being out at sea for so long that they had developed scurvy (Vitamin C deficiency). At the time, they treated it by providing them with limes to eat and suck on and the name lymies stuck.

That is either close to the real story or some weird hallucination that I think is the truth.
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Actually, "I" think CHARLIE would be a GREAT name. Good one Charlie, first time I have actually laughed out loud reading from this group. ;?)

Lymes IS what I had ALWAYS heard it called here in Wisconsin, until I joined this "Lymie" group.

As a matter of fact, I was a little perturbed when I heard us referred to as Lymie's, as my NAME is English, I am 1/4 English, and ALWAYS had heard of Lymies as referring to English people. NOT someone WITH a Disease.

You really canNOT refer to it a a tick borne disease EITHER. As it can and has been transferred by FLIES and Mosquitos also. (though to a much lesser degree, of course).

Actually it is a MOOT point in my book. It is WHAT we get USED TO. I am TERRIBLE at remembering names, always have been and MUCH WORSE NOW that I have had the "brain fog", etc.. So, the simpler the name, the better for me.

I still hear it called Lymes by medical "professionals" ALL the time. To ME it does sound better, when using it in certain contexts, like PLURAL.

I especially found it interesting in this thread, (and HAD to send it on to my email friends), how a word "I" personally hate with a passion; got started in the 1800's; by cops, no less.

Course, THAT term is very much abused and misused in our society and so-called entertainment.

Keep up the good work, guys and gals. Some don't even like being called THAT. BUT some Love it.

Jim
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Charlie-- made me Laugh--

My doxi bottle says for- Limes-
--Jay--

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